you may think you’ve won

but i confess, the more i think about what you’ve done to me and to my life, the more i realize that this is far from over. i thought long and hard about how it all played out to your advantage. i don’t feel like i can sit back and take it. you lied your way to victory. you lied to everyone in your life about how things were with this thing between us. you lies to me all along. your lies twisted up my judgment and my resolve and put me in an unsafe situation. you took advantage and that is not ok. you don’t get to just walk away unscathed.

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revenge...

Apr 22, 2018 at 6:31pm

is for the weak. Make like me, and forget about what you have no control over. Accept what you can't control. Learn whatever lessons you need to learn from this, cut your losses, settle any debts you incurred and MOVE ON.

so you lost?

Apr 22, 2018 at 7:05pm

and the sentence "this is far from over" makes you lose even more. Let it be over and at least with that you'll stop losing.

Karma isn't usually instantaneous.

Apr 22, 2018 at 7:23pm

You got used and abused. They played you so they could get some twisted egotistical self gratification. They twisted your mind, and your emotions, and put you on to a path of insanity, and self destruction. I've been around that block myself.

Think of it like this.. You know what they did. They know what they did. They likely know that you know what they did now too. So.. it doesn't matter where their life is now, or what others think of them because, I'm sure they must feel very small and pathetic about themselves when it comes to you. That's always going to be with them, and following them for the rest of their lives. They will never have any peace from it. Their final Karma would be to find themselves someday in a situation that they can't get out of, and one where you would have been the one to get them out of it scathed or unscathed. Don't let your anger get the best of you. You can set yourself up for some bad Karma that way, and they're not worth it.

"the more I think..."

Apr 22, 2018 at 8:43pm

Stop right there. Stop thinking about how someone did you wrong...can you do anything to change that? Thinking about something you have no control over is like spinning in one maddening place for eternity. Get off the mental hamster wheel. It will only drive you crazy.

Anonymous

Apr 23, 2018 at 12:06am

They may think you're a psycho, or maybe they know better but just tell everyone that you are... but that doesn't mean you have to go off acting like one, proving them right about you, and to everyone else they spew their vomit to. All they have right now is a false victory for this game they played. If you go on a crusade for revenge, and wear that shoe they handed you, then they really do win. If your actions don't fit into their description of you, then they lose.
You really just have to keep your cool, stop focusing on them, and focus on doing great and positive things for yourself. Look forward to meeting someone more honorable, noble, loyal, and way more trustworthy. Hopefully you can just take all that bullshit as a learning experience, and recognize the signs and red flags for any future prospects that may come along.
You don't need someone that will entice you, entrap you, and then do a 180 degree turn on you when you've jumped through all their hoops. There are so many users out there that will do that, and you got to recognize them, and stay clear of them. Let them be a problem for someone else to deal with.

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Mental hamster wheel

Apr 23, 2018 at 12:20am

I love it! The appearance and feeling of motion isn't exactly the same as getting somewhere.
That said I still beat you Donald. Madam President

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my solution..

Apr 23, 2018 at 1:54am

and it always works.. is to leave it to the higher power to balance the scales of justice. Karma's a real bitch but it can't be wielded by your own hand. If you try, it will only turn against you.

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Yes now you

Apr 23, 2018 at 6:50am

Get it was so deep in your crap long enuff to lern how to play by your rules that it backfired on you im happy now just keep looking at the mess you made i left with nun of your durt and life gos on now i play by my own rules and im wining the game now.

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Let it GO Let it Go

Apr 23, 2018 at 7:46am

It is not about you. They Lied. Walk away and find the love of your life dont waste another second in the ashes of the past.

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Anonymous

Apr 23, 2018 at 8:31am

I told them we loved each other.

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