You have such a good attitude about life :)

that's how he makes his living. Too bad no one warned you, and your "friends" watched you walk right into his trap.

...even if it’s one video. That’s one too many, right!
One video vs Many
One photo vs Many
One text vs Many
One date vs A year and a half
If there is even one, you can guarantee that there are many. Just like rats or lice, there is never just one.
Be honest with yourself and thankful that he’s gone from your life!

don’t be sad for him.
clearly he needs to be accountable for his lies and deceitful behaviours.
it must be so bad for the women he took advantage of in his quest for his own satisfaction.

He is to blame.
He knows what there is and what there isn’t.
He knows if there was a relationship or not.
It wasn’t so bad for him when he had his wife and all of his women on the side.

No that was not the mission. You know how I feel for real. It's real.