Cursed

posted June 20th, 2018 at 1:27 AM

I feel like I’m destined to never have sex with another guy, after a difficult breakup with someone with whom I shared exceptional sexual chemistry. We were together for many years, and even though our relationship was turbulent, we were both turned on by the other. It was much more than sex though, but that was an important component of our relationship. Since I don’t feel physically attracted to the majority of men I meet, and since if I’m not feeling chemistry I won’t have sex, I think the odds are good that I’m cursed to never have sex again.

9 Comments

This would make that guy proud...

Jun 20, 2018 at 8:19am

... he ruined you for other men! Why don't you find him, win him back?

@ This would

Jun 20, 2018 at 9:42am

I left him. Too many bad things that outweighed the good stuff.

Yes! Win him back!

Jun 20, 2018 at 11:12am

Nothing ventured nothing gained. And if it doesn't work out, get drunk in the bathroom while playing careless whisper on repeat. Then you'll realize you're being pathetic and full of shit at the same time.

Well

Jun 20, 2018 at 12:12pm

What about those of us who were cursed not to ever experience sexual chemistry with anyone? At least you had it once.

This could be me

Jun 20, 2018 at 3:35pm

The urge was uncontrollable so we hooked up again and it was spectacular!

I am in the same boat

Jun 20, 2018 at 11:22pm

I am ruined. I am not interested in having sex with any of the guys I meet or date.

Yeah well

Jun 21, 2018 at 4:23pm

You’re a chick. You could easily get any guy you wanted in this dating dead zone we call a city.

Try walking a mile in the shoes of an average single guy in Vancouver. You wanna talk about no prospects...

@yeah well

Jun 21, 2018 at 6:39pm

I believe you’ve missed my point. I’m not interested in having sex with most of the men I meet. I need chemistry or it doesn’t do anything for me. Unless some miracle happens and I meet someone who really does it for me and I for him, I’m likely to be celibate for the rest of my life. It has nothing to do with being female; it’s a personal choice to not have sex with someone unless I’m really feeling it.