Love Stinks yeah yeah.

I was trying to date this temp at work. She was cute. Really nice. She kept brushing me off. I kept saying lets go for coffee and she would say sure. But it never happened. 3 months later she actually told me via text that she is dating our companys trainer. He is on salary. I am not. Oh well I guess she wanted a guy with more cash. I was nice about it. I texted back and said that I wish you both luck. But it kinda stings when that happens. The old I love them they dont love me scenario. Oh well. Plenty of fish in the sea. I think that I will stay away from women at work. But the problem is we meet so many beautiful people at work. Time to move on.

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I wonder

Jun 19, 2018 at 1:00pm

If you are taking the right lessons from this experience? These things will burn you over and over again until you learn what you are supposed to learn.

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Coffee is not a date

Jun 19, 2018 at 1:20pm

Dude, you blew it. The other guy actually offered her real dates and courted her well.

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Yup, just money

Jun 19, 2018 at 2:14pm

It was all $$$ and not at all that your confession sounds like it was made by an entitled creep. Maybe you're just a boring person.

You lose!

Jun 19, 2018 at 3:14pm

You should’ve asked her out and actually made a DATE. As in, on the calendar. You’ll know what to do next time. Don’t assume every woman is in it for money or you’ll never find someone.

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No Men in Vancouver

Jun 19, 2018 at 4:09pm

Is all we hear,along with "Men Never Approach" "men ignore women in Vancouver" etc etc
Guy confesses he made a try at a woman at work,gets massive down votes (from the female dominated Confessions) for trying.....
Surprised he hasn't been accused of sexual harassment yet.
Anyways OP, do not date at work. All it takes is one "he's kinda creepy" rumour to the HR and you are fired,in court,and unemployable with no references.

Oh,and if they split up DO NOT date her. Never

She didnt like you

Jun 19, 2018 at 4:39pm

she liked the attention.

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Duuuuuuuude

Jun 19, 2018 at 6:53pm

What part of ‘I’M NOT INTERESTED IN YOU’ did you not understand...? A woman brushes you off time and time again, even according to you, and the lesson you take is that she must only be interested in money....?!

You sound like a cretin. She wasn’t interested in you. Scene.

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Maybe she lied

Jun 19, 2018 at 8:10pm

Maybe the only reason why she claimed to be dating somebody else is so that you'll stop asking her out. Just because you're attracted to her does not obligate her to go out with you. I am a woman who gets rejected by men, too. I don't blame them. That's just life. When a man says no, I respect that and back off. If a woman says no to going out with you, you need to respect that, too.

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@OP

Jun 20, 2018 at 10:07am

You were putting too much pressure on yourself and her. It doesn’t sound like it was very fun, that’s why she brushed you off and started dating the other guy. Not because he has more money. You should approach women not attempting to win them like a prize, just talk to them because you enjoy talking to them. Sooner or later you’ll find a woman who likes being around you as much as you like being around her. Lose the negativity and just enjoy someone else’s company.

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Dude...

Jun 20, 2018 at 12:52pm

As a fellow dude, trust me. You don't want to ever get involved with someone at work. Thats a big no no.

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