I stopped dating casually and wasting my time/energy on women I didn’t feel a true connection with. I questioned why I was doing this in the first place but something told me to just do it. To focus on my health and my life.. focus on being better. I didn’t want to end up with a girl just because she’s pretty and likes to have fun. Vancouver is full of this type. I guess I’m getting older and I spent two years with the wrong person. So almost a year later, I have met the woman of my dreams. I was starting to believe I wouldn’t fall in love. as cheesy as this is, I had to learn to really love myself, move on from my horrible taste in women and heal all the parts of me only I can heal, to have this kind of love come into my life. Confessions of a former Vancouver d-bag.