Honest affair

My friend had an affair for over a year and a half. When Wife found out he went sheepish and let her do the talking. She probably thinks it was a one off. I wonder if she wants to know how serious it was or if she is happier being ignorant and letting it slide for the sake of the kids and the mortgage.

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VanHeights

Jul 16, 2018 at 10:20pm

Or maybe you don't know anything about their marriage.

Too simple

Jul 16, 2018 at 10:32pm

There is more on the line than the kids and the mortgage. You are limited in your emotional depth to think wives just stick around for the bills to get paid.

Let it slide

Jul 17, 2018 at 8:12am

She's probably happier being ignorant. This is not an uncommon situation. Men tend to get sheepish when caught and down play it. The wife's tend to blame the other woman and believe that their husband was just suckered in. Just let it slide. It's none of your business and if it works for them let it. Personally it bugs me but I've kept my mouth shut.

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the other woman

Jul 17, 2018 at 12:48pm

Always takes the blame.
It’s unfair but it’s the way the Wife can rationalize staying with the little f&@ker. He’ll keep doing every couple of years and she’ll keep forgiving him until she is ready to stand on her own two feet. Then he’ll just end up with a younger version of the Wife and the cycle will continue.
Until the Wife that’s been wronged stops blaming the other woman, this will be the way of affairs...sad but true.

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@Vanheights

Jul 17, 2018 at 12:50pm

Maybe you don’t...
Either way, a liar should be called on his lies. True healing cannot begin without the whole truth.

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No such thing

Jul 17, 2018 at 6:04pm

As an honest affair,but I’m trying...

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John Dutch

Jul 20, 2018 at 1:17pm

She already k ows abd doesn’t care. She just doesn’t want to be alone. So I will keep a low profile until she gets distracted and then start all over again.

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