If you’re wondering why people aren’t writing you back...

... on dating sites: Take a look at your last message to them. If you’ve only responded to their questions, talked a bunch about yourself, and then haven’t asked them anything about themselves to get to know them better or shown interest in their opinions... You’ve basically raised a red-flag that you’re a self-centred boor.


Post a Comment

How On Earth

Jul 16, 2018 at 11:07pm

Does a guy even get anyone to even respond

22 4Rating: +18

I'm so that person right now.

Jul 16, 2018 at 11:40pm

I'm literally the most boring person in this town. It's why I can't date anyone. I would have nothing to connect on, and would bore absolutely anyone. No one think you're boring today, I got it covered for this one time. Are you still reading this? Are you not yet bored?

11 5Rating: +6


Jul 17, 2018 at 7:18am

...also doesn't help if they start right out the gate complimenting the chest or bum.

18 6Rating: +12


Jul 17, 2018 at 7:34am

Literally how every conversation I've had went.

13 3Rating: +10

so uptight

Jul 17, 2018 at 9:42am

and pretentious poster.

6 14Rating: -8

Re: so uptight

Jul 17, 2018 at 11:26am

Looks like we found the boorish responder!

16 9Rating: +7

@How On Earth

Jul 17, 2018 at 11:33am

Just have a shower and a haircut. Oh, and don't be a misogynist, you know she can see your personality in your profile pic, right?

8 16Rating: -8

@@How On Earth

Jul 17, 2018 at 1:50pm

Very unhelpful.

12 6Rating: +6

Take the hint & move on.

Jul 18, 2018 at 4:36am

Maybe they answered your questions just to be polite, but really aren't interested in you. If they're not showing the interest, just take the hint and try someone that will be desperate enough to hook up with you.

5 6Rating: -1

@@@How On Earth

Jul 18, 2018 at 8:28am

It only seems unhelpful if you're unaware of the scads of research on how physical attraction, that is, visual attraction, is the name of the game in dating, especially online dating. Now that we have twitter and things like this, we can even see women openly mocking ugly guys. There's even women who admit that the difference between "flirting" and "sexual harassment" is nothing objective, it's just whether the guy is hot or not. Ugly guy says "hey, Becky, nice dress" = SEXUAL HARASSMENT. Hot guy says "hey, Becky, nice dress" = FLIRTING.

This is a real problem for the West. How can we possibly have a system of discipline for sexual harassment where the sole basis is, more or less, whether a guy is attractive or not? It means the crime is really being ugly, it's the aestheticization of discipline/politics, I hear that fascists were really into that!

6 6Rating: 0

Join the Discussion

What's your name?