Overreacting maybe

posted August 19th, 2018 at 12:34 PM

This guy I really liked ended up calling girls he'd hooked up with (one even the exact night before we hung out) right in front of me, in my room while I was sitting there. I left to go to the living room and he closed my door to continue talking to her in private. My friend told me I should have told him to leave but I really liked him and didn't want to see him go. I feel like an idiot. I don't know if I'm overreacting or not. I don't imagine he'd be too pleased if I called a bunch of dudes I'd had sex with and had 10 minute conversations in front of him. Especially after saying I'd slept with them the previous night. I'm sad about the whole thing though I don't know if I plan on seeing him again. I just wanted him to leave this morning. I kept thinking about it and it was bothering me.

8 Comments

He must have....

Aug 19, 2018 at 4:56pm

broken some kind of Feminist Law's I'll bet.

please

Aug 19, 2018 at 5:47pm

this guy does not respect you. Love without respect is not worth a damn. I can't believe you used the term overreacting. I can't believe women fought for decades for sexual equality so that you could think you are "overreacting" when you are treated like trash.

GO

Aug 19, 2018 at 6:25pm

Go now. Don’t even speak to this pos again. What he just did to you was pretty much the same thing as if he’d taken a large s*** on your face. Sorry to be gross, but I want to make a point! If you accept this behaviour he will absolutely get worse. Please ignore whatever pheromones you’re reacting to and walk away from this jerk while you still have some self-esteem.

Yeah, you should have.

Aug 19, 2018 at 6:33pm

From age & experience here: Just get rid of him.
There will be others. But if you're not careful with that low self-esteem the others are going to be just like that loser.