The Girl I Miss
posted September 23rd, 2018 at 6:14 AM
seems to have become trapped inside a microwaved version of herself, all bloated and bubbling. Loss, repulsion, sadness, cruelty, regret. Feeling too many things at once.
posted September 23rd, 2018 at 6:14 AM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
8 Comments
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Sep 23, 2018 at 9:56am
It could be worse: she could be with a narcissistic pig who only sees what he wants to.
Word of the day: Schadenfreude
Spaceballs
Sep 23, 2018 at 11:40am
She became Pizza the Hutt?
That wasn't in the movie... Did I miss a sequel? Hey, you must be Lone Star.
How's your Schwarz these days?
Here's a truth
Sep 23, 2018 at 2:29pm
Someone who takes such pleasure in kicking someone when they're down seems very much like a person with NPD. Cruelty in their minds is if someone actually tells the truth about things they said and did. Cruelty to the rest of us is lashing out to say extremely mean things, designed to hurt the person at their core. Not to mention if the girl you miss happened to be an ex of yours, there's pretty good reason for her to not be at her best. She's trying to recover from an abusive relationship that in large part led to whatever health problems she might be experiencing now.
@heresatruth
Sep 23, 2018 at 5:24pm
I agree and your scenario is pretty much where I'm at after a shitty, gaslighting, exploitative relationship with a selfish pig.
Maybe she's moved past looks
Sep 24, 2018 at 12:11am
And is ok being real for herself instead of worrying what she looks like all the time
Ummm
Sep 24, 2018 at 11:37pm
Are you just judging based from online pics? Maybe she hasn’t even gained much weight.
Feel the love people
Sep 25, 2018 at 6:18am
If you love someone you love them unconditionally. I prefer dogs to people. People are sad lonely and do not realize the meaning of life. Why cant people be friends and real with eachother instead of these objectifying relationships. If you love someone you want them to be happy. To love and be loved to heal all the suffering.
@feel the love
Sep 25, 2018 at 11:57pm
Precisely.
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