I had dreams about my ex-wife last night.
posted September 22nd, 2018 at 9:44 AM
I wish my fucking subconscious would leave me alone and let me move on with my life and find some small level of true happiness and contentment again....sheesh!
posted September 22nd, 2018 at 9:44 AM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
10 Comments
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Sep 22, 2018 at 10:33am
Dont you mean nightmare?
Move on to the next
Sep 22, 2018 at 10:37am
Just find yourself a new ex wife to dream about. Maybe she can join you two for a threesome in your dreams.
Anonymous
Sep 22, 2018 at 11:01am
I split with my ex 6 years ago, and have never regretted it for a second...however, I still dream (at least a few times a month) that I have somehow ended up back with him, and am stuck (due to guilt and/or some weird circumstance). It's the worst. I sure hope it stops one day.
Just a suggestion.
Sep 22, 2018 at 12:13pm
If you frequently dream about your ex-wife your brain/subconscious is trying to tell you something. If you can afford it, it might be a good idea to work with a therapist to help you pinpoint why your subconscious is pestering you (it may not be just one issue, FYI.). Once you've figured it out, your therapist can suggest constructive strategies that you could use to help alleviate this issue. If you're open to the process and do the work (therapy isn't 'just talking' – it can be hard work!), hopefully you'll find the peace you seek. Good luck!
Will
Sep 22, 2018 at 12:20pm
It is not your subconscious. It is you. See a professional. This is not the place for you to get real help.
Hard lessons learned.
Sep 22, 2018 at 3:11pm
Ewwww, ex-wife's. As we reflect on our lives, isn't it amazing how much time woman consume of our lives? It's a shame we can't warn the younger generation but it's a path they to have to tread.
She is thinking of you
Sep 22, 2018 at 9:55pm
That is why you are dreaming of her. Not sure the content of the dream. Tells you what she is thinking about.
Just history
Sep 22, 2018 at 9:59pm
Doesn’t have to mean you’re still hung up on them or wistful of your old life together. I still dream of my ex randomly but I also thank my lucky stars we are not together. The years you two shared make up your memories and they are bound to make an appearance in your dreams. It would be more disturbing to never think or dream of them again.
@ewwww
Sep 23, 2018 at 5:23am
Such a shame that you have never fallen in love. Yes, let’s tell the younger generation how gross women are and that it’s okay to be a lonely bitter old man.
@@Ewwww
Sep 23, 2018 at 10:56pm
Bitter? I'm on top of the world!!! Free as a bird, wooooohoooooo!!!
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