I dated my ex for what seemed to be way to long. 3.5 years to be exact Throughout our whole relationship he never took care of himself, always playing video games, eating junk and not advancing in his life. He cheated on me about 7 times in total which I didn't find out until a while into it. Although I could have walked away I didn't. He blamed me for his lazy efforts and not moving forward in life. Now I moved on to a different city, got my own apartment, great credit, a car, a wonderful honest relationship and going back to school to continue my studies. I love where I currently am and worked hard to get here. Him on the other hand, wouldn't leave me alone constantly stalking me on social media even 8-9 months after breaking up. His current girlfriend some fat, greasy, metal head decided to start stalking me too, she has no job and her parents support her. They both are repeating the cycles of disgusting shit I had dealt with my time with him. She even messaged my current partner out of the blue while drunk at 3am one night calling me names and harrassing me because my ex started telling her lies about me. I had been so happy living my life and never wished them bad but after having these two alcoholics stalk me and watching them decay is just beyond me and disgusting. I never wished them bad until now... I truly hope they get mental help.