k ur first mistake is thinking that attractiveness is a feeling.

I am handsome, I guess. I had a very attractive and stylish woman come up recently and said I was gorgeous. I wouldn't agree.

I find that meeting women is hard because they seem to think I'm a player. That's the last thing I'd do to somebody I care about.

So..

Women like guys with big sinks anyway... right?

Ha ha ha....

When you look at a thing of beauty (male or female), you’re only looking at a moment of time. Looks fade. Think of the most attractive celebrity in your mind. Even someone at the top of the hierarchy like Brad Pitt loses their looks. A beautiful flower is only for a moment. Then decline. I think most people just give up on themselves as a whole person. To me that is unattractive. I like spending time with people who are interesting, not good looking.

What's your excuse there?