great word

If you didn't like them, then stop wasting your time obsessing over them.

Agreed. Had to look it up

Maybe you were special? Or maybe they walked away from you after they got to know you better and realized you weren’t special at all. If you were what they wanted it probably would have worked out. Be happy they let you go and move on!

I wasn't the predacious one. You would pull me in, just to push me away, and relish the pain of rejection you would cause me each time. I was taking note.

When you started to need an excuse to dislike me. Now, I get to look forward to being smeared by you to mutual friends. Don’t worry, they’ll take your side and leave me hanging.

Who cares what friends say. They will always side with “their friend” even if they thought you were awesome. Sometimes it takes getting to know someone, and in that time you gravitate towards them and when they do something crazy like start becoming controlling, for an example, you pull away. Eventually realize it’s not what your looking for and just end it. It’s better to end it then keep going on and on with fighting and seeing if it will work out? Yes? Exactly. Possibly what happened was wrong, and you felt hurt but just maybe she felt hurt you eneded up not being what she wanted from a man and in a relationship.

I was never controlling. She was. In fact she was possessive of me. She knew I loved her, but she didn't feel the same. She was already in a relationship, and couldn't stand the thought of me ending up with someone else. She didn't love me. She didn't want me. She just didn't want me to love and be with someone else.