This Annoys Me

I go on a date with a woman at a regular restaurant and my bills something like $20-$25 and her bills about $100 because she has to buy these expensive drinks with her food. Of course since I am the man I have to pay or I am never going to get a second date and be labelled cheap. What annoy me the most is I have never had a woman even pretend to make a grab at her purse when the bills comes its just expected I have to pay.


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Thats not even the worst thing

Dec 14, 2018 at 9:36am

At a pub with a friend just having a couple beers, a few women sit down at the table beside us and start chatting. The impression being given is that they are with us,then they order up food,margaritas etc.
Friend and I go to leave,waitress hands us a bill for $130 WTF.
Women looking at us smiling bloody way I'm paying.
This has happened to me twice.

Another time,2 sat down beside me,started chatting and had 2 quick margaritas then left. Waitress comes by with a bill for their drinks,no way I'm paying. Manager involved,I threaten to call police,etc they back down.

Out with a friend last weekend,big group of guys and a couple ladies,doing high fives at the game on the TVs,drinks, etc. Ladies start talking to us,I ask them (not wanting a fight) which one is their boyfriends. "Oh,we don't even know them,we were just getting them to buy us drinks".
Me: "well I'm not buying you any drinks" They suddenly lost interest in us.


Dec 14, 2018 at 9:50am

I'm not buying it. I've never been asked out on a date and had the guy pay.

I think

Dec 14, 2018 at 10:26am

you have to start dating different kinds of women. Maybe the type you're looking for is not so independent or modern as other women. When I was in the dating scene, I never expected my date to pay my share. I always contributed or tried to pay at least. The women who are worthy of relationships will understand this. It comes from being kind, caring and unselfish.

Did you ask her out?

Dec 14, 2018 at 11:10am

Then you pay. I am a guy and I have never expected to not pay when I do the asking.


Dec 14, 2018 at 12:23pm

I was once invited to an expensive restaurant, and shared food with a guy. He ordered a lot and ate more than I. I don't drink alcoholic drinks either while he does. At the end, he asked to split the bill. Maybe you could tell your dates in advance that you'd like to go dutch so everybody knows that they each have to pay what they order.

eye roll

Dec 14, 2018 at 12:29pm

I am a woman and I ALWAYS pay my bill for the first date, even if the guy tries to insist. Even now, 3 months into dating someone, me and my guy always split the bill. most women I know are like this. You're clearly just going out with the wrong girls. Pay attention to the kind of people you are attracted to.


Dec 14, 2018 at 12:46pm

this happened TWICE last night?!
something smells fishy

A female...

Dec 14, 2018 at 1:06pm

I always pay for myself. I dont expect anyone to be responsible for my bill.

If I know the guy is paying

Dec 14, 2018 at 2:46pm

I order something small and only have one drink.

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Where do you find these women?

Dec 14, 2018 at 3:21pm

Same as some of the other posters here, I've always paid my own way. Most in my crowd are grown ups who would offer to split the bill, or pay for both, it's empowering.
Maybe it's true that you aren't looking for, or finding the right women, in the right places.

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