Woman up and ask him out. But why do you feel so entitled to him?

#2018womencandoanythingamancan

So what did you do, or say that gave him the impression that you're a gold digger?

...he’s just like my ex who used every excuse in the book but in reality was simply a player who wanted to keep his options open. Look at the guy’s past . If he’s never been in a truly committed relationship like marriage or lived common law with someone, chances are excellent it’s because he’s not the making commitment type. Mine told me that he’d “lived with” 13 women before me. What he actually meant was that he hung out at thei place so much he basically lived there. By now he’s probably upped the number to 14......

You had your chance.

Speak your truth, tell this guy with your voice it's ok, and he is safe to move in to kiss you. He is probably lost in all the never-ending semantics, with no clear and concise path to follow. Just saying :)

no offence but like talk to him. try that. don't be a coward and put it all on him. who knows, maybe that's why he's avoiding u!

Security matters to him and he has way more at the moment, but would have less to be with me . And since he doesn't see how anyone would want to be with him for him and fears he'd have to support both for us to be together in any way, shape or form, this is why he'd think I'd be a gold digger.
I'm no coward; he knows why he has to reach out this time. He thinks he won't measure up. I can see why he thinks that. His courage will change everything.

How heterosexual.
I mean, that's all there are in the world are straight people. And it had to be a woman who wrote this. It couldn't possibly be guy.
How suburban.