Married man wants to be a woman

I want to tell my wife I crossdress, and her to accept me as her girl on girl partner. We would have mutual sex with toys and strap ons. Then we could go clubbing as girlfriends and flirt with men maybe have a threesome with a alpha man who would dominate us both. I want to watch him make her orgasam knowing that he's going to do the same to me next!


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Dec 15, 2018 at 9:43am

Possibly should have brought that up prior to getting married. Hang out all your kinks beforehand so you can figure out if you're truly compatible.

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Dec 15, 2018 at 10:25am

You posted a similar thing months ago.

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Dec 15, 2018 at 11:46am

You should watch the French movie "Une Nouvelle Amie" (The New Girlfriend).

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You are a man....

Dec 15, 2018 at 12:03pm

therefore you are wrong.

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What is stopping you from telling her?

Dec 15, 2018 at 12:37pm

I appreciate the fear. But perhaps she senses there is something you are withholding and wants to be let in on it.

How much do you trust her? Because ideally our partners should be people we can open up to about anything. If there is a lack of trust on either side, that is something to be looked at first.

In the end, you won’t know until you try to discuss it. But I believe sometimes our partners love will hold much more than we expect it to. IF not then we have to ask ourselves - what is more important? Keeping up a pretence to keep the other in our lives or being authentic and inviting our partner into a deeper connection with us. The path may not be easy, but with love and willingness to communicate through the challenges, I believe it is possible.

Also, if you are asking this of her, invite her to share what she’s hoped for - maybe not even sexually but emotionally, spiritually. And commit to being that person for her too.

Whatever you choose, I sincerely wish you the best. I had a cross dresser friend once who shared your situation. I miss him very much but that’s an aside. I’m wishing him the same thing I’m wishing you. Acceptance and fulfilment ...!

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I feel so sorry for your wife

Dec 15, 2018 at 3:49pm

You do realize you’ve completely shatterered her life right?


Dec 15, 2018 at 5:04pm

Why all the downvotes people? A perfectly good confession! OP, thank you for sharing and I wish for you that at least some of it comes true. You go girl!

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Dec 15, 2018 at 5:33pm

Now there's a confession.

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Dec 15, 2018 at 6:15pm

The world is messed up!

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Dec 15, 2018 at 6:23pm

You are having a tough time coming out of the closet.
This seems to be the path towards coming to terms with enjoying being with a man, to make yourself a symbol of receptivity...a form of symbolic role play... to justify accepting advances by a man on you.
Right now, I think it would be hard for you to accept a man advancing on you while you are yourself, that is, in your day-to-day masculine self you live your life as. Doing so (I'm guessing here) could mean for you that you're not masculine enough and this challenge to your masculinity as you see it would be too much...even though, to the outside world you are just as much a man as before. In fact, it would be your masculinity that would attract men who like men to you, but you don't get that.
You want sex with a man and this is how you make yourself be okay with it. One day you'll be fine with it and see that it doesn't make you less of a man. Hell, given the hate out there, it takes a real man to be public about it...and a real man to tell the world to fuck off as you live your truth. Being a coward is being less of a man. Living your life based on what others think is.
Hey, it's all good. People that judge will judge anyway. You should feel good about who you are and what you're into. That's what counts.
Just don't hurt others along the way and you're fine.

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