The Pot Head Asshole or The New Guy

I fell in love with someone going on three years ago, it was magical. There’s no other way to explain it. But we moved faster, so fast in fact that the first night I stayed with him was the first time netting him in person, and I just never left (I slowly moved in). Long story short we’ve been on and off since then. There’s been lies and arguments and dating other people and getting someone else pregnant and them losing the baby and car wrecks and deaths in the family....pretty much there is no easy way to explain our story. Then finally I started moving on & found new love. I was so happy, this guy had a great family and friends. He gave me so much support in everything I did and was always there for me. In his arms were my safe place. One day though my ex texted and everything changed. I started only thinking about this ex and wanting to talk to him and wanted to see him. It was causing problems with me and this new guy so much in fact that we ended up breaking up. Now I’m back with my ex. Don’t get me wrong, my ex wasn’t the only reason for mine and this new guys problems and the breakup. Now I think I feel resentment sometimes towards my ex who is now my boyfriend. He can be such an asshole and make me feel like complete shit. The he smokes a little more and becomes all lovey doves. Which I like him like that but I hate that he’s like that because he’s so stoned. Maybe I resent the weed? I really don’t know.

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Anonymous

Dec 9, 2018 at 9:26am

Your boyfriend is an asshole that doesn't care about you. He played you and hes using. You deserve better anyone deserves better than that. If he's in his forties he's definitely a loser that won't change.

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Anonymous

Dec 9, 2018 at 10:18am

Sounds like you need to dump the ex, tell him politely to never contact you again, and block him in every regard.

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You sound

Dec 9, 2018 at 10:28am

Like an awful partner.

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Run!

Dec 9, 2018 at 11:29am

It seems like you know what you need to do....or next thing you know your 10 or 15 years in and you have wasted your life, I’ve been there, there’s nothing but dissapointment down the road...if I could go back and talk to my 20 something self even 30 something self I’d say focus on yourself, mentally, physically, emotionally....I’d be further along in life now
Good luck, follow your intuition it never lies

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Annnnnnnnnnd

Dec 9, 2018 at 12:00pm

Here we go again.
Saying they love good guys who care for them etc etc but always going back to the cheaters.
Just wait,in a month or year or three,you'll be back on here complaining "where have all the good guys gone? There's no good men,they all smoke pot and are unemployed etc etc etc." When the cheaters and chads are a very small minority,and great guys abound everywhere.

And the great guy who you ditched for the ex? He's probably had enough of women,and will drop out of dating and focus on his own well being,like myself and about 200 other guys I know and 60% of the guys out there.....

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You sound

Dec 9, 2018 at 12:12pm

Pathetic . You sound the opposite of intelligent and you sound low on self worth.

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Hard Way

Dec 9, 2018 at 8:51pm

Bah, you’re definitely in your early 20’s. Another five years you’re going to realize you had a great guy and passed him up for a loser and you’ll regret it. If someone is only lovable when they’re impaired, run.

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Are you a troll?

Dec 10, 2018 at 2:43pm

Or are you just really really dumb?

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Life is about choices

Dec 13, 2018 at 6:11am

Need we say more?

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