The dating history of damn near every woman.

In the states there have been a handful of cases “rape by coercion” where someone flat out lies in order to have sex with someone.

This needs to be a thing here, too.

They laugh with their friends and say stuff like..."He's young dumb and full of ....."

You're lucky they haven't accused you of sexual assault or whatever,in revenge for you dumping them.
Its happened to me twice,lost my job,lawyer fees etc now I just avoid women.

... written all sorts of literature about bad male behavior, but the books on bad female behavior have yet to be written, partly because the matriarchy/gynocracy insulates women from all criticism.

Brave trans people though are going to break down the gender binary, and then it will become apparent that lots of women just hate men---what is it but sexism to not want women with penises in the women's washroom?

I’m a woman, and I completely agree that sometimes women behave the way you describe. It’s definitely hurtful if you’re not looking for casual sex. I think it’s very important that both parties make it clear from the outset that you’re interested in an actual relationship, and not just a casual hookup. I also think that far too many men still assume that because a woman has sex with them, she must want a serious relationship. It’s an old stereotype that continues to cause confusion. I’ve personally had experiences more than once where I told the guy before we even went on a date that I wasn’t looking for anything serious, but as soon as we slept together he immediately assumed that we were in a relationship. It was incredibly annoying and I immediately stopped seeing them if that happened. Men need to accept that women want sex just like they do, and not every woman who has sex with you wants anything more than that.

Being played really sucks and Ive felt betrayed many times in that way. People have lied and hinted at a future to get me in bed and it breaks my heart a little... or a lot. I think it’s important to state what you are looking for before sleeping with someone. If they deceive you beyond that they deserve to be called on their shit. Sorry that you got played. In this culture, maybe even across the world, it seems like there is a serious lack of communication in dating/love/sex. Yes, we should just state from the get go that it’s casual, and if our feelings change, also let that be known. I think people have sex so quickly that it leaves less time to really get to know someone. I made a rule for myself to get to know someone well before the sexy times so I can assess their character. Are they a lying jerk? Easier to tell after a month of no sex, public interactions and group hang outs.

Ahhh dating is so horrible sometimes. Sorry that you’re going through that. Some people would rather be in denial than admit they are mistreating others. I hope, when you are ready, you meet your lady and suffer no more heartaches of this variety.

I wish I had your problem. The only time women flirt with me is when they want to take advantage of me. It can be something like lifting a heavy object for them, telling them the current time, or even amusing them with stories about a recent trip. Beyond that, they want nothing to do with me. I wish I was more attractive, outgoing and sexually desirable. Sigh.

"In the states there have been a handful of cases “rape by coercion” where someone flat out lies in order to have sex with someone."

So let me get this straight: if a guy tells a woman he's a rich lawyer etc and the gold digger sleeps with him, but he's not a lawyer-that is rape?
I agree with the law though. Women going out at night should be banned from wearing Spanx, lift up bras,false eye lashes,2 pounds of make up and have no fake boobs.
All of this is to attract men under false pretenses,after all. Which is the same as you complain about,yes?

...gullibility, this “confession”passes as legit. Hilarious.