Something I have noticed over the years is that some, if not most women, will show more interest in a man who shows less interest in them. I don't mean ignore them, or treat them poorly... but If you are keen and show too much interest, they will balk.
It sounds like you are genuinely interested; perhaps you're showing your cards too fast?
Anyway, just try to show a little less interest and come across a little more indifferent, as though you don't care either way whether she accepts your advances.
Like what @well says and...
Dec 10, 2018 at 4:52pm
fashion that trendy hairdo with the douchebag designer beard, the ladies will settle for nothing less.
Disregard females. Acquire currency
Dec 10, 2018 at 5:02pm
Seeing as women have a huge (which they will fervently deny,repeatedly) list of must haves,and gotta be's...don't be too surprised nor disheartened at this. Vancouver is notorious,as you know well enough. Don't worry,be thankful you're not going out with nor married to someone horrible,and focus on yourself.
Confidence and attitude are everything
Dec 10, 2018 at 5:11pm
Plus a good sense of humour. Your post doesn’t show any of those qualities.
Ask?
Dec 10, 2018 at 5:43pm
It’s not helpful to ask yourself or people who haven’t rejected you. If you truly want to know, ask the people who did! The comment saying that showing “too much interest” is partly right, but I would phrase it differently. I want a man who definitely shows interest, but I don’t want one who comes across as desperate. I’ve had men who haven’t even met me in person start calling me honey and babe, and making demands that I call them at certain times. I’ve had a guy give me the key to his house before I’d even been to it, and after one date. I’ve had guys call me 5 times in one day after one date. I’ve had guys tell me they love me after knowing me for a week. Etc. All of those types of behaviour make me run away as fast as possible. Just be real, be yourself, be confident, and don’t be pushy! Anyone who tries to pressure me is going to see my back walking away. Show that you’re interested, but don’t act like a psycho. Shouldn’t be that hard, unless of course you’re actually a psycho.
Scott Rosenburg
Dec 10, 2018 at 7:05pm
"You chase a dog it runs! Treat em like dirt and they come running. That is what I did to your mother and we were married soon after" Bonus points if you know what movie this is from.
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Post a CommentProtip
Dec 10, 2018 at 2:35pm
It's always your attitude.
Anonymous
Dec 10, 2018 at 2:44pm
You're too whiny.
well...
Dec 10, 2018 at 3:02pm
Something I have noticed over the years is that some, if not most women, will show more interest in a man who shows less interest in them. I don't mean ignore them, or treat them poorly... but If you are keen and show too much interest, they will balk.
It sounds like you are genuinely interested; perhaps you're showing your cards too fast?
Anyway, just try to show a little less interest and come across a little more indifferent, as though you don't care either way whether she accepts your advances.
Like what @well says and...
Dec 10, 2018 at 4:52pm
fashion that trendy hairdo with the douchebag designer beard, the ladies will settle for nothing less.
Disregard females. Acquire currency
Dec 10, 2018 at 5:02pm
Seeing as women have a huge (which they will fervently deny,repeatedly) list of must haves,and gotta be's...don't be too surprised nor disheartened at this. Vancouver is notorious,as you know well enough.
Don't worry,be thankful you're not going out with nor married to someone horrible,and focus on yourself.
Confidence and attitude are everything
Dec 10, 2018 at 5:11pm
Plus a good sense of humour.
Your post doesn’t show any of those qualities.
Ask?
Dec 10, 2018 at 5:43pm
It’s not helpful to ask yourself or people who haven’t rejected you. If you truly want to know, ask the people who did! The comment saying that showing “too much interest” is partly right, but I would phrase it differently. I want a man who definitely shows interest, but I don’t want one who comes across as desperate. I’ve had men who haven’t even met me in person start calling me honey and babe, and making demands that I call them at certain times. I’ve had a guy give me the key to his house before I’d even been to it, and after one date. I’ve had guys call me 5 times in one day after one date. I’ve had guys tell me they love me after knowing me for a week. Etc. All of those types of behaviour make me run away as fast as possible. Just be real, be yourself, be confident, and don’t be pushy! Anyone who tries to pressure me is going to see my back walking away. Show that you’re interested, but don’t act like a psycho. Shouldn’t be that hard, unless of course you’re actually a psycho.
Scott Rosenburg
Dec 10, 2018 at 7:05pm
"You chase a dog it runs! Treat em like dirt and they come running. That is what I did to your mother and we were married soon after" Bonus points if you know what movie this is from.
What bothers me about you...
Dec 10, 2018 at 7:14pm
...is the misplacement of that comma.
For me, its easy
Dec 10, 2018 at 8:40pm
I'm ugly and I don't have money.
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