What a mess !

Uncertainty and fear as home life is flailing. In fact, the problems with the work of domestic life are so deep to the point of feeling lost. Phoniness reigns at work and it’s misery. Marriage is a losing battle of being judged and condemned, and while feeling guilty there's the realization of not feeling as much. Meanwhile, thoughts of how what makes one warm inside from the past reveals loose threads that can’t be let go of, and this realization is jarring because the source is outside of one's world. What a conundrum, huh? Anyone would feel crappy going through this alone.


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Dec 13, 2018 at 9:11pm

Then don't go through it alone. Grab onto those loose threads before they are severed forever! You might have far less time than you think.


Dec 14, 2018 at 4:46pm

Don't give up!
All of this will work out in the end.
Maybe you just need to follow up with this past.
Like reconnect with an old friend?
Anyway I'm sure you'll figure it out.

Thanks responders

Dec 14, 2018 at 7:26pm

It's not me going through this, it's him. Frustrating when he thinks he's an island and suffering alone, keeping it bottled inside instead of processing it by talking it out. But I "know" what he's going through. I'm a helpless witness, of sorts.


Dec 14, 2018 at 8:52pm

Well maybe he should find the person from the past and talk it over with them?

Perhaps that would help more than talking it through with you?


Dec 15, 2018 at 6:31pm

Ummmmmmmm no.
No, it would not.
More like the other way around. You wouldn't know that.

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Dec 16, 2018 at 3:06pm

He might be smart not to let you into everything.
You sound a little controlling.
I doubt the innocence too.
Well good luck with that ;)

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Dec 16, 2018 at 10:20pm

Where are you getting this crap!?
These inferences...really! Are you high?
I recognize when you post on Confessions, and I really think you might need to check your meds dosage and perhaps take some time away from the Internet.
Get some help!


Dec 17, 2018 at 9:36pm

You are relentless! What will it take for you to finally grasp the concept that he doesn’t want to dance to your music? He will make his own choices when he’s ready to do so, and your constant ragging and nagging isn’t going to make him feel more warm and fuzzy towards you. You seem extremely immature and controlling. Let this guy follow his own path whether or not you think it’s the right one! It’s really NOT up to you. Grow the hell up.

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Dec 23, 2018 at 11:05pm

You seem threatened by the OP. He's succeeding, isn't he? He's taking him away from you and you're panicking. That's why this matters to you. I don't think your laughing now.

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