You're uninvited

You are forever uninvited. You accepted an invitation by my family and then jammed out. The other offer was a better deal. You came back that weekend and I politely looked at all the fabulous photos and made small talk. We will never invite you again to our home or any other event that matters to us. The sad part -- you will never know what you are missing -- actually, it's only sad to you if you only knew, but I will never give you that opportunity to do that to my family again.

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I hear this!

Dec 12, 2018 at 1:42am

I couldn’t believe my S/O did this to me and blames my family for making them out to be the bad guy. So lame’mmm

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I have a family member...

Dec 12, 2018 at 6:57am

... who did this last Thanksgiving. We've only been having holiday meals together for _decades_. She had an invitation to go on a trip with some of her Wine Aunt/Beta Orbiter friends (she's 40, unmarried, etc. Has loads of male friends, but "teehee, I'd never date them, but they'll make some woman happy some day!") and she totally ditched us.

If it were up to me, she'd be barred. Thankfully, it's not up to me, it's up to my zero-morality boomer parents! "Family? What's family? Is that that thing they have on TV?"

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Wow...

Dec 12, 2018 at 7:29am

Some people just don't get it. Good move OP

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Yikes

Dec 12, 2018 at 7:46am

Sounds like they dodged a bullet!

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What are you, 12?

Dec 12, 2018 at 11:52am

"you're uninvited"

ooooooooOOOOOOOOOO

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Uhhh

Dec 12, 2018 at 1:40pm

Overreact much?

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Granny

Dec 12, 2018 at 4:59pm

I completely agree with the OP if the invitee accepted and then just didn't show up. If the person respectfully let you know ahead of the event that their plans had changed, then I think you've overreacted a little. However, if they totally disrespected you and your family by just not showing up with no explanation, I agree they've chosen to remove themselves from your invitation list. This person obviously has no manners, no respect for you and your family, and is selfish and immature. I don't think you need him or her in your life at all. Why give them further opportunities to let you down? They obviously don't give a shit about you or how you feel.

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Redacted

Dec 12, 2018 at 6:01pm

Yeah they sound like a tool but why keep up appearances and look at their photos while stewing?

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