Anyone else feel lost? It's okay to confess it. I'm fine, but have been celibate for 15-20 years...can't even remember. A series of tragedies in earlier life snared me -- in so many ways that I've become 'complicated'. I'm sunny, optimistic, and healthy, but don't know how to meet people anymore of any kind. Even when I'm around people -- and I'm around people a lot -- it's seems like my isolation has sealed me into a fate of forever being lonely and alone. How does one get out of it? Please pray for me <3


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Jan 20, 2019 at 7:30am

Find a church. Maybe you'll meet them there.

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Get over yourself

Jan 20, 2019 at 2:58pm

Getting hurt is a part of life. If you aren't prepared to take a chance, you'll miss out. The worst that can happen is failure...and there's so much advice online to help you as you wade deeper in relationships. Go quit embracing the familiar because it might hurt. Stop gripping the past as your free pass to martyr yourself. You won't find a great parking spot from your living room couch. Stop whining, be an adult and make the effort.

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Hear ya

Jan 20, 2019 at 9:07pm

You're not the only one. You've described how I feel as well....I haven't held someone's hand in 10 years and it hurts more as time goes on. Fingers crossed for a miracle

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Jan 20, 2019 at 9:07pm

Hit the gym, get fit. Get a hair cut touch up. Maybe some make up..

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Jan 20, 2019 at 11:23pm

You are not alone, this is a chronic phenomenon in our society, take care in body, mind and soul.

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Jan 21, 2019 at 3:13pm

I can tell you are optimistic, and it sounds like from what you said you are fine looking & healthy -- so that doesn't seem to be the problem. The problem is even 'good looking' ppl are having difficulty today. And, the more of an outsider our chance circumstances lead us, the more difficult it is to fit into cliques. So, I will pray for you, and our world, for peace and for love. There's nothing wrong with reaching out, so glad you did. Know you are not alone at all. Advice though? Never forget your essence -- you rock for sharing! Anyone would be lucky to have you for a friend. Draw ppl to you by remaining kind and open (you don't sound bitter, but a little sad, we all have our moments). Stay creative, and always, always be open for love to happen -- and it will -- because it has wants to and it has to. With love, stay cool.

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Jan 22, 2019 at 1:16am

I could have written this

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Johnny Weepers

Jan 22, 2019 at 6:04pm

Nobuddy wuvs me either

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Praying Does Nothing

Jan 23, 2019 at 1:22pm

Get a prostitute.

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