Dating Strategy

My strategy for dating is simply numbers. Ask out as many women as possible. Some are bound to say yes. You would be surprised how many cute women are on the rebound or desperate on any given day. Women crave sex just like men and you are bound to get one that's been cheated on recently or in a dry spell. Then don't make yourself too available. Always tell them you'll check your schedule. Make it seem like you have a lot going on. Things like family functions, sports you play, sports you watch, trips. Women want a guy who has a full life. Don't try to impress them with a fancy dinner. Just a normal place is good for a first date. Make yourself mysterious and interesting. Women love gabbing to their friends about whats going on with the guys in their lives. There is nothing wrong with this strategy and I think a lot of guys can use it in their daily lives.

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You are not

Jan 25, 2019 at 11:22pm

the only one. Many of my friends have tinder auto liker browser extensions on their computers. They dont make any efforts as they appreciate their own time too much. So on the weekends they choose. At the end of the day men still do the picking

The Very Same

Jan 26, 2019 at 12:25am

Women who are on here (and every other forum and news article on Vancouver dating) complaining every day about how guys in Vancouver never approach- will give you a thumbs down for suggesting tips on how guys should date more.

Anonymous

Jan 26, 2019 at 12:40am

And this exact strategy also works for women ;)

Damned if you do

Jan 26, 2019 at 1:15am

Damned if you don't.
Can't wait to read the replies...

Something is wrong

Jan 26, 2019 at 4:29am

"Make it SEEM like you have a lot going on." Why not GENUINELY develop interests for yourself? Actually BE a person someone would want to include in their lives?

Anonymous

Jan 26, 2019 at 8:32am

This seems more like a strategy to get sex? Maybe retitle it as your hookup strategy.

And here I am

Jan 26, 2019 at 9:16am

A well educated balanced and hard working fool looking for a genuine connection.

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@something is wrong

Jan 26, 2019 at 10:14am

My thoughts exactly!!!
Who hurt you so much that you don't actually want to find someone? Why not deal with that and get hobbies, and eventually find someone meaningful, rather than pretend to be an interesting person for the sake of sexual conquest. So gross.

Binder Dundadt

Jan 26, 2019 at 4:43pm

Asking out as many women as possible is one thing. But if you don't say the right thing, or tell the right lie, or look the part, then this so-called strategy will backfire before you even get a fighting chance.

If you're not white, tall and handsome... not happening.

If you don't tell them that you're a doctor, lawyer or investment banker, and can bullshit your way through about your interesting career, then they'll lose interest and walk away faster than you can say "uncle."

If, after being pressed for your salary, you reveal that you make less than 100 grand, they're not going to waste any more time on you.

If you don't tell them that you're into snow sports (no silly wabbit, snowshoeing doesn't count), work out at the gym every day like you're getting ready for an appearance on "The Titan Games," or can spin a great story about the most extreme outdoor sport you did last summer, then kiss her nice fine ass goodbye.

If you don't have a story to share about that epic trip you did in Europe, Australia or S.E. Asia, then she's going to go for the other guy who does.

Basically, if you don't offer any kind of value to her, and prove that she is worth five minutes of her limited time and attention to give a shit about you, she is going to brutally reject you. Because if you want any kind of interest from her, she needs to know if there's something that you offer to make it worthwhile. Then maybe then she might just open up her legs, though not necessarily her heart -- but that's not what you're really after if you're just playing the numbers game, is it?

No one gives sh*t if you act busy

Jan 27, 2019 at 4:21pm

Like everyone else; have some genuine interests, I can see right through that game playing bs, no one has time for that they really don’t. People who are solid in themselves DON’T CARE. And not all women ‘gab’ to friends because we work and have sh*t to do. I remember one guy asked me out I said let me get back to you and got back in a timely manner confirming I could meet that day which was confirming a week in advance....didn’t hear back what time to meet and thought he ghosted, he messaged 2hrs before meeting at 9 at night. That’s just playing immature games imo. Nope no way. Authenticity is want I want, not bs.

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