Stop bashing parents

I confess that I’m sick of seeing posts from people who think they’re virtuous and superior because they’ve decided they don’t want to have children. Personally I couldn’t care less whether you do or don’t, but this stupid attitude has to stop. When it comes down to it the majority of people who state that they don’t want kids either don’t have a choice anyway, or don’t want them because they prefer having a life without obligations to anyone else. I’m not judging you for that. I believe that anyone who has the ability and means to have children should be able to do so, although I also believe that those nutcases who pop out another one every year are irresponsible. Be reasonable! If no one has kids anymore, who do you think is going to take care of you when you get old? Who’s going to be working and paying into the social services that you’re going to need at that time in your life? Get off your high horses and admit to yourselves that your attitude has nothing whatsoever to do with you caring more about the state of the world just because you don’t want children. One thing I’ve definitely noticed about the people I personally know who once said they were never having kids who subsequently did have them, is that they became much nicer overall. Having to be fully responsible for another human being tends to make a person less self-absorbed, more understanding and patient, and often gives them an entirely new appreciation for life on earth, not to mention maturity. Those of you who think you’re extra-special because you don’t want them are delusional.

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Actually...

Jan 31, 2019 at 2:12pm

... we're all obligated to pay for your kids because we're all coerced into paying taxes to support things like Compulsory Schools. So it's not like those of us who cannot afford or who are too ugly to have relationships or children aren't ending up footing your bills. Show some respect.

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Just sayin'

Jan 31, 2019 at 2:51pm

Having children does not guarantee that you will have someone to take care of you in your old age.

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Goes both ways.

Jan 31, 2019 at 3:02pm

Those of you who think you are extra special because you had children are delusional.

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Hahaha!!!

Jan 31, 2019 at 3:08pm

You are delusional if you think people that become parents are nicer overall. Thanks for the laugh.

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Snark

Jan 31, 2019 at 4:22pm

"One thing I’ve definitely noticed about the people I personally know who once said they were never having kids who subsequently did have them, is that they became much nicer overall."

This stupid attitude has to stop. What a miserable hypocrite you are complaining about other people's snarky attitudes.

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hmm

Jan 31, 2019 at 4:33pm

the way the world is going to be by the end of their lifetimes, having a baby isnt doing anyone a favour these days, its like a life sentence

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@Hahaha!!!

Jan 31, 2019 at 5:27pm

My experience is that parents develop this ridiculous view that everyone exists to serve them and their children.

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Anonymous

Jan 31, 2019 at 5:52pm

Wait, we're going to keep having social services when we're old?!

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Anonymous

Jan 31, 2019 at 6:00pm

Do people have children so they have someone to look after them when they are old? Maybe in China where there's no social safety net.

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wow

Jan 31, 2019 at 7:09pm

You sure have a lot to say for a person who claims not to care either way. I’ve noticed that some people I know who have had kids have turned into jerks, and yet all your friends became nicer. So, which one of us is right?

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