I wish my hair was going white! Instead I'm dealing with grey.
I would switch with you any day.

Maybe? Because of the icing?

I'm a female in my mid 30s going grey and can't be bothered by the upkeep of dying. I don't think people realize how many women walk around dying their hair. If everyone let it go natural it would be the norm and people wouldn't associate it with looking old. I'll see how I do growing it out an embracing it, but I just don't care anymore, let it in, don't fight it.

Are you naturally blonde haired ?
This is when I’ve seen this

Least I'm not 5x5

the Glad garbage bag guy ?

Please keep your opinion to yourself. I have a friend like you who preaches going natural: she's married with 3 kids, and only has a few strands of white hair in her 30s. I'm single, mid 30s, and have had white hair since late teens/early 20s. I didn't think it was worth dyeing my hair at the time but I've been through a lot of stress with graduate studies, career, relationships, etc. Although I still look and feel young, my hair is now almost completely white in some spots so after plucking it for many years, I've finally decided to start dying it 2 years ago. Yes, I wish it was more acceptable for women to have white/grey hair as it is for men. But I'm not doing it for society: I'm doing it for myself. I love my naturally luscious jet black hair, and would like to keep it for as long as I can. I don't think going completely white or mixed white/black hair would suit me. I know many blond girls who regularly colour their hair red or black, so much that nobody knows it isn't their natural hair colour. Your hair, just like the rest of your look, is an expression of yourself and what makes you feel good. It also makes me look more polished and professional. When I will feel the right age, and my hair is uniformly white, I will not have any problem with going white.

I'm a big fan of grey on women.

sooo, having only a few white hairs at 50 is bad?