I confess

I can't get over my significant other cheating even though this past year they have seemingly changed their bad habits. I just feel like a big L O S E R . I have never liked coming in second place. How do you get over the need to be the best?

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Heh heh heh

Mar 21, 2019 at 3:21pm

Nobody is ever the best at everything. Pretty good is all there is.

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You are not a loser!!!

Mar 21, 2019 at 3:29pm

You're a brokenhearted person because your spouse broke his promise to you. I'm sorry that happened and hope you have support to move past the pain. Fingers crossed that you're talking to a good marriage counselor. Good luck! :)

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The need

Mar 21, 2019 at 4:12pm

Dont get over the need to be best. If you are with the right person, you will be the best.

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You never came in second

Mar 21, 2019 at 4:18pm

Had nothing to do with you lacking as a spouse. This was a character flaw within themselves, and their lack of willpower.

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Anonymous

Mar 21, 2019 at 7:46pm

Don't hang around blandcouver doing this to yourself. I recommend Europe. When a person travels they are more open to life experiences and adventures. Who knows, maybe you will meet a much more interesting person travelling and you will become a more interesting and desirable person because you're travelling?

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He’s never going to change

Mar 21, 2019 at 10:21pm

Sorry, honey.
But you forgave him even though he cheated many, many times. It’s hard to feel bad for someone so foolish.
He cheated with you in the first place. What did you expect?

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You are

Mar 21, 2019 at 10:22pm

a big time L O S E R.
They will N E V E R change.
Sorry sweetie.

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Dont worry

Mar 22, 2019 at 8:01am

Dont worry about being the best, only try to be better than you are now. And being better means starting by dumping that asshole and finding a new, better partner who respects you.

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This cheating was on them-not you!

Mar 22, 2019 at 8:34am

you 100% deserve to feel special! Remember: you teach people how to treat you. This means it's time to end the relationship and fly solo until you can find a partner who values your relationship as much as you do. It's hard but it's the only way. Cheaters always cheat again- teach them that you do not accept betrayal & dishonesty.

Best of luck to you!

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Your issue

Mar 22, 2019 at 10:02am

Is that you are still with someone who thought nothing of wanting to fuck someone else, and they got naked with them and got off, went the whole way.

You only know about what you caught them with, or what they admitted to.. I'd be out of there like a dirty shirt.. otherwise spend life wondering if they liked getting off better with that other person, if the sex was mind blowing, etc..

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