My brother in law.

My boyfriends brother. At family dinners he doesnt make eye contact with me... My partner will be next to me and this guy looks at his face and not mine. Ive never been disrespectful. Ive never been rude.. My boyfriend and i separated once and the brother in law messaged me on facebook and asked for my number, I never responded. I told my partner when we got back together and he said his brother probably definitley wanted to have sex with me and he thought it was hilarious and he felt proud of course I was so naiive about this message. I thought something bad happened?! The brother in law also says hello to everyone at dinner but me and sometimes my partner. What the hell is going on!? Who literally avoids eye contact .. Its like a guilty child. But it also buggs me because this frozen attitude makes me feel disliked which whatever who can help that. But at what point is it ok for me to feel disrespected. Id like to walk infront of his and wave like a jackass and say hellllooo. Lol. Fuckk!! He is now married ive now been with my partner for years why the cold shoulder all this time.

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Isnt it obvious?

Mar 15, 2019 at 3:18pm

He still has the hots for you. Maybe he can’t even interact for fear of showing it. He probably has you on a pedestal, maybe social anxiety, who knows. You could make an extra effort to say hi to him or just ignore him if he doesn’t respond when you speak to him.

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Most likely...

Mar 15, 2019 at 4:51pm

He is immature and took the rejection as a bruise to his ego.

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Ha!

Mar 15, 2019 at 5:02pm

Lol. That's too funny! He probably had a crush on you from the beginning.

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Take the high road and

Mar 15, 2019 at 5:45pm

Don't waste so much energy worrying about whether he chooses to acknowledge you or not. His problem not yours. Just be polite and keep your head up. Chances are other people in the family have noticed his obviously immature behavior. His loss, not yours!

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Probably

Mar 15, 2019 at 6:16pm

still has a crush on you

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Partner

Mar 15, 2019 at 6:58pm

Why are you wasting so much time, jealously not my department buds try another ex's that really is an ex's. See I know for not what I miss. My choices prevented another prior, bet ya you wished now though that was case. Why? for certain 100 over 100 % I'd of fucking yeh for sure ponied the 40 under the chin and eat breakfast! Have nice day.

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I would avoid you too ...

Mar 15, 2019 at 9:07pm

... based on your atrocious spelling, grammar, agreement, consistency, and syntax. Holy shite!

Hmm

Mar 16, 2019 at 12:04am

So what? Just ignore him. Why do you care so much? You married your partner, not his family. You're not entitled to another person's friendship either. It's his problem. But the way it seems to bother you so much makes me think you might have enjoyed the attention he provided you.

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Probably

Mar 16, 2019 at 2:22pm

He thinks you are hot and is jealous that his bro has you.. could be a lifelong jealousy thing of his bro getting more attention from females and you are just a part of it.. may be more about his bro than it is about u.. that's why he wanted to have relations with you to prove to himself he can have what his brother has

Trust me this goes on.. I'm a guy with brothers

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Author

Mar 17, 2019 at 12:51pm

I dont know how anyone can constantly see someone who looks everyone in the eye but me.
Its fucking rudem its obvious and im not invisible.
It makes me anxious makes me want to avoid the family visita because deep down i want to say what the fuck is your problem!?!
I love the attention!?
What attention? There isnt any. I spoke to my partner finally and he said he noticed it. I said dont you think its fucking rude he said NO because his brothers embarassed for what he did by messaging me for sex. Thanks for the advice all. Love how i got so many dislikes yay

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