regardless the inter-generational traumas your mother, and now u, suffered ... your mom carried life for u ... get over yourself & get busy making a life ... then u will be thankful

She hates you too.....bye bye

They don't know your history, they don't know your story. Not everyone has ideal parents. They decided to bring a life into this world. If they weren't up to the task, they were careless, selfish and thoughtless, bease they weren't buying a car or something, they were in charge of shaping and preparing a life, with love so the child grows up secure.
If they dropped the ball, the kid owes the parent nothing. They did not ask to be born, they did not have a choice.

Ever think about writing something with proper grammar and not sounding like a 12 year old? Your advice is null and void. Learn how to write full words.

Mother is not a synonym for saint. Some mothers don't deserve to know their kids. Ask me how I know. I don't hate my mother, I don't have really any feelings for her. Perhaps mild pity. Anyway, try to get to this stage, because having hate in your heart is only corrosive to you. Good luck. It sucks to have a bad mom.

I couldn’t have said it better, at the moment I’m in a rut living with her and her painful boyfriend. Soon will find a place and keep her at a distance.