Dilemma

posted April 14th, 2019 at 10:30 AM

I still love him and a big part of me wants him back. But I don’t think I can deal with the fact that he rushed headlong into new relationships (at least two that I know of) instead of making any attempt to work things out with me. I think the only reason he reached out again is because those ones didn’t work out and he hates to be alone.

7 Comments

Let me guess you did not even

Apr 14, 2019 at 11:32pm

Doubt it, at least be honest with him!

Something doesn't jive here

Apr 15, 2019 at 12:16pm

What would compell them to rush into new relationships versus work things out with you?
And what kind of relationship did you have where you can't ask the hard questions? How is this supporting love?
And if they're reaching out, what is their reason...or did you not ask this too?
And is his history one where he's never been single?
Considering that it's someone you love, you don't seem to know them well, and aren't comfortable enough to get the info you need to make an informed decision.

@let me guess

Apr 15, 2019 at 5:14pm

It’s not up to me to tell them anything. It’s up to them, FOR ONCE, to open up their own heart and be real. If they don’t have the courage to do that, then they don’t have the courage to be with me.