Give Love

I have three amazing kids and they're my life. I have been divorced for the past 2 years and am having so much trouble getting out there. Once single guys hear I have kids they lose all interest. My kids already have a dad so I don't understand why guys are like this. I am not telling them to take my kids to the park or a hockey game. I am a great mom, an amazing cook, and easy on the eyes. Men should be begging to date me. Single moms deserve love just like everyone else.

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Gent

Apr 23, 2019 at 11:01pm

Big hugz dont give up u sound like a good mom n a beautiful woman I love to chat with you.

3 kids and single

Apr 23, 2019 at 11:12pm

Not surprised that men lose interest once they find out you have 3 kids. Are you kidding that you won’t ask him to take them to the park? Yes you will, eventually....be realistic!

*Click*

Apr 23, 2019 at 11:56pm

What you bring is a relationship with four people. Not with just one person. Presence of father figure irrelevant.
Most people hate complications. Kids are a complication, and three kids more so. You can believe you deserve whatever, it doesn't change that rationale for someone else.
Get real and state your situation upfront. A single dad may be more your speed.
Unless you just want a bangbuddy, and there's no shortage of interest in that.
Your tale rings hollow.

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Yeasty Slop Bucket

Apr 24, 2019 at 12:15am

Plenty of guys will wear the same underwear for 3 years, until they are all stretched out with giant holes under the elastic. It doesn't mean the want to buy something in that condition.

Reposted

Apr 24, 2019 at 12:54am

I think I've seen this same confession once before. You're probably the same person that reposted one of mine awhile back. Regardless, I'll play along. Would you take a single dad with three amazing kids? You could have an amazing Brady Bunch thing going on. There could be single parent dating sites for that sort of thing. Personally being a single guy without kids, I wouldn't want to deal with more than three, and I would prefer them being born of my own genetic material, and not that of some other guy no matter how amazing they may be. Wouldn't be that much of a big deal for me, if I arrived on scene once they were already grown, and out on their own. I wouldn't mind suffering headaches from helping to raise my own children, and dealing with their adolescent behaviors, but not so much that of someone else's if I can help it. You should have chosen their father more intelligently.

Oh Dear

Apr 24, 2019 at 5:58am

I actually do feel for you. But you have to imagine it as if the tables were turned. 3 kids is a lot! And if they are young you bet this person will be involved in raising them. Personally, as a woman, if I met me DREAM guy and he had one kid I'd walk away. I think a lot of people want to start a fresh life with a new person and unfortunately see kids as baggage. I don't know how old you are, but if I were you I would look for a guy who also has a couple of kids. Then you have that in common :-)

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Hhhhmmm

Apr 24, 2019 at 6:27am

So why does this confession sound like all the other “life is so hard,” “I got it so bad,” “poor me” confessions? Not buying it.

for sure

Apr 24, 2019 at 6:47am

you deserve love.

Lady

Apr 24, 2019 at 7:25am

I feel the same way about dating single dads. It's not like you're not a good person or they're not good people, I just don't want my life and my relationship to be profoundly affected by a major thing that wasn't my choice. I also do not want children and date accordingly. I'm sure you're lovely and your kids are great, don't take it personally.

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Are you serious?!

Apr 24, 2019 at 7:44am

What you don't understand is that once women have kids they become completely different people- you might be an entrepreneurial supermodel but you are not fun in the way single guys like. Fortunately there's a jillion guys to pick from- they are at the park with THEIR kids, playing grounders or kicking the soccer ball. Go say Hi. If they are not responsive, it might be because they are divorced and shell-shocked by embittered and entitled women like you.

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