God I'm lonely

Have you ever been so God damn lonely that you literally want to pay someone to watch a movie and cuddle? I'm just so desperate for some semblance of human connection. To hold someone and feel their skin against mine

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Yep-

Apr 19, 2019 at 10:31am

during the day light lately I've been getting overwhelmed with this kinda unexpected emotion that comes right out of the blue.

You can!

Apr 19, 2019 at 11:20am

Google cuddling services, they exist

An old alchemist

Apr 19, 2019 at 11:21am

gave the following consolation to one of his disciples: "No matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel, if you do you work truly and conscientiously, unknown friends will come and seek you." - Carl Jung

working girls (aka prostitutes)

Apr 19, 2019 at 11:58am

A lot of them (go for the escorts) are willing to do that. They would probably be happy that a customer didn't want to have sex, for a change.

Cuddles

Apr 19, 2019 at 12:05pm

I think that there actually are services for cuddling. I don't know if they are in Canada but they exist elsewhere. I've had that thought too. I think it is sometimes why I've been promiscuous in the past but that actually made it worse so its better to seek out cuddle buddies.

Yep

Apr 19, 2019 at 2:15pm

I hear that. In my case, it happens all the time. Right now I gotta wait until payday and then I’ll take my pick.

Yes, yes and 100% yes.

Apr 19, 2019 at 2:17pm

I would of been glad to pay someone for it. Then I was struck by the realization that it would not be her and not even close to fulfilling so I went back to the lonely. I'm thinking it's just time to get use it again. There will be no other that is her and when you find the ONE! And it's not meant to be well I do not think there is another less pleasing experience in life. So fucking sad, stupid drunken cupid shooting all crooked and shit. Boy if I could sue the cupid.inc they'd be my company and this shit would never happen to another again.

Starving for affection

Apr 19, 2019 at 3:45pm

When I was really young perhaps, and much more needy. Today I couldn't give less of a shit about it. If it's not with the right person, then I know they'll just stand in the way of my genius, and hold me back. I have plans for this world. I have plans for all of you. I don't need anyone getting in the way of that.

Dam

Apr 19, 2019 at 6:53pm

Some scary thoughts on such a wonderful emotion ,feeling.. A hug (cuddle)
Everyone deserves to be loved..

Anonymous

Apr 19, 2019 at 8:35pm

Yes it's hard and painful. There's an actual term for it called skin hunger. I miss being held a great deal, but don't want sex at all from a guy. (Trauma, PTSD)

It's truly sad how prevalent it is in society considering all of the services for cuddling. I wish there were some other options other than paying for a cuddle or sex worker just to be held. You're not alone in struggling with this as many of us suffer silently

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