Making friends

I don't know what I am doing wrong that I am unable to make at least one friend. For me, it is an uphill battle of reaching out to people first and continuing the momentum. If I don't reach out to them first and continue the momentum, I will never hear from them ever. I hit the breaking point where I am tired of this and will stop making any efforts.

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Making Friends

Apr 26, 2019 at 11:23am

Just get outside ,enjoy life..
Dont be afraid to say Hi.
Do things that make you happy.. There is Always someone out there with simliar interests too.
Life is too short to care what others think.

don't worry about it

Apr 26, 2019 at 11:49am

People are often too busy these days. Friendships are hard to maintain, especially for young people, considering that you have to work at least 2 jobs to get by - any extra time is devoted to self-care, decompressing. Does not have anything to do with you; most people are stuck in their own heads to probably give a damn.

Everyone

Apr 26, 2019 at 1:13pm

It's Vancouver... flake-city.

Welcome to Vancouver! My Home Town!

Apr 26, 2019 at 1:16pm

Or maybe welcome to millennialism? I work 4 jobs and have lost touch with most of my friends. I barely talk to anyone I don’t work directly with. It’s a shame but I’m too tired to hang out with anyone. I grew up here and used to have hundreds of friends. It wasn’t always like this.

Me too

Apr 26, 2019 at 2:39pm

I got tired of this too. I used to have friends at work and it was much easier to make friends in the past, but it's now getting harder and harder. I don't know what's going on... perhaps it's the technology and social media, but people become more and more shallow and self-absorbed and I miss the old times when it was more simple. At some point, I also got tired and gave up. I am fortunate to have a loving partner and I don't feel lonely all the time, but it wouldn't hurt to have a few good, trustworthy friends or at the very least to have some people to have fun with together.

Hate baby hate

Apr 27, 2019 at 4:43am

Fuck friends. Make enemies

Better go see the doctor

Apr 27, 2019 at 6:32am

Frankenstein. Two heads are better than one

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