My buddy.

He has autism and he pays for escorts once a month because he cannot get a girlfriend. But the weird part is that he pays to give oral to these women. 75 per cent decline. It seems to defeat the purpose. The point of paying for sex is that the Man gets to be pleased (oral for him) not the other way around. There are tons of women that don't even have guys who like to do that to their girlfriends. He should just get a girlfriend.

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Apr 26, 2019 at 9:28am

Step up then.

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Apr 26, 2019 at 11:03am

What your buddy should do is google escort reviews and see which ones are positive and negative. Then he should go to their websites and communicate with them about what he wants. Good luck.

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Jeez

Apr 26, 2019 at 11:23am

Remember she is still an escort. That can be too intimate for some of them. It doesn’t mean you can do anything with them because you’ve paid.

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@Jeez

Apr 26, 2019 at 11:56am

Eating at taco bell, like a hundred other guys! Tasty!

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To each their own

Apr 26, 2019 at 7:09pm

Everybody gets off on different things.

I'm very picky about the women I will do it for, but my favorite sexual endeavor is going down on a girl, so I know where hes coming from in that regard.

Not sure I'd ever go to an escort and do it though. That's a bit nasty. I agree, your buddy somehow, needs to find a girlfriend. If he has the issues you say he does, perhaps you and/or some of his other friends could help him meet women.

I've done alright with finding relationships in my time, but there were definately dry spells when a helping hand from close friends would have been appreciated.

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similar situation

Apr 26, 2019 at 7:12pm

A woman I knew who used to be an exotic dancer one night had an after-hours encounter with a celebrity. All he wanted to do was go down on her. His fiancee at the time wasn't into it and it was something he really enjoyed, so he paid her to let him do it.

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Anonymous

Apr 26, 2019 at 9:36pm

Just because someone has autism or any health condition doesn't mean that they can't find someone, it just might be a bit more difficult. Maybe he is fine not having someone.

Also, what a douchey attitude about men going to escorts for their pleasure only and not hers. You're a real catch..... This may be shocking, but there are men that enjoy pleasing their partners and are turned on by giving oral. I've had exes very into it, and turned by giving....

That's ok if the women (sex workers) choose to decline as is the right of a sex worker. I suppose I'm surprised though as I assumed sex workers would do most things in this area, but I don't really know much about it. I just do feel bad for sex workers having to do this and how it must harm them emotionally and physically, and their safety as well.

Anyways, perhaps using a dental dam could work if the women consent of course. Hopefully he's being safe, and regularly tested.

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Hmmm

Apr 27, 2019 at 6:38am

Sounds fishy to me

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Marty

Apr 27, 2019 at 11:24am

I know a nurse who specialized in STDs and he told me he treated a guy who got drunk and did oral to a prostitute then went to the clinic seeking antibiotics "in case." The nurse told me that in his experience, prostitutes do not like to offer themselves for that service.

In my family, my wife, sadly my wife doesn't like to get oral sex. I had an affair a few years ago now with a woman who really enjoyed giving it and receiving. I mean really enjoyed it. That was great. The sex part anyway. Feeling guilty and lying did not.

I wish we weren't so hung up on fidelity in this society. I have a couple single women friends I'd love to hook up with just for some friends with benefits sex, particularly oral. One has even mentioned some preferred techniques on Facebook postings.

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Are you not paying attention?

Apr 29, 2019 at 3:26pm

He can't get a girlfriend and your advice is...wait for it... that he should get one? But dude, he can't get one. If he could, he would, right?

Boy, I say boy, the lights are on, but nobody's home....

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