The person I want to marryposted April 14th, 2019 at 2:05 PM Is an abusive asshole. I’ve tried so hard to be there for him in hopes he’ll change but it it only gets worse. I need to keep my dignity. I’m going crazy without him but I’m way crazier with him. It’s hell. Show 17 Comments 17 Comments Post a Comment Listen upApr 14, 2019 at 10:31pmIn fact, just read what you just wrote over and over and over again until you realize what you’re doing. He will not change. You’re miserable now but if you stay I promise you’re not going to be happier, you’re just going to be older and even more miserable. Trust me on this one. K Preachin' to choirApr 14, 2019 at 11:27pmSister, grow a pair and suck it up! ME ME ME MEApr 15, 2019 at 3:31amME ME ME ME. I'm guessing thatApr 15, 2019 at 4:11amwe'll be getting many more posts from you if you do marry him. Lots and lots and lots of them.At least make the decision to NOT have children with him. No need to inflict your misery and suffering on the innocent. Repeat after me Ladies...Apr 15, 2019 at 8:39amOnce an asshole always an asshole.Even if he appears to change...he will revert. To the OP, DTMFA. @Me Me Me MeApr 15, 2019 at 9:09amSounds like you say that a lot. Gleeful spectatorApr 15, 2019 at 11:07amBut the sex must be amazing, amirite? Be honestApr 15, 2019 at 9:23pmHe's an abusive asshole because he doesn't put up with your bullshit, and you're too "dignified" to take any accountability for your own behavior. You are strong enoughApr 16, 2019 at 1:38pmTo be on your own! I was in an abusive relationship for years, and I was so afraid I would be miserable without him... but I was slowly dying in that relationship. And honestly the first year after leaving him was the hardest of my life...but I grew a lot, learned my own strength, and now I am happier and more independent than ever! You have to take care of yourself! Hey (The person I want to marry)Apr 16, 2019 at 8:19pmFreddy Mercury said it best (Crazy little thing called love.) So wtf if you want crazy love you have to work hard and be willing to accept the person you may of fallen in love with needs a little work. That's why true love helps us become better people. Only when the things that are not working are discussed in a way two people can be helpful to each other and not hurt each other with angry criticism. Try if you have not yet tried, I implore do try first :-) LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?