Spotless Mindposted April 19th, 2019 at 10:08 PM It's been about a year since he suddenly left me. And I'm not doing well. I wish lobotomies were still a thing. Show 5 Comments 5 Comments Post a Comment Hang, in their sport.Apr 20, 2019 at 2:40pmDon't worry, you'll find yourself a new ex soon. Hopefully the next one will be less of a jerk. How is it not going well?Apr 20, 2019 at 4:53pmI am asking a very serious question, because I know a thing or two about leaving and being left behind. If I can I would be willing to try and help you if I can! Well then...Apr 20, 2019 at 9:42pmGet one & spare us your pathetic excuses for living AnonymousApr 21, 2019 at 1:54pmIt takes as long as it takes. What helped me was finding activities that I didn't do with them, that didn't remind me of them. You need a fresh start, something that will reestablish who you are separate from him and the relationship you had. Some people are able to move on quickly, for some of us it's not as easy. It gets harder to do without closure but you'll get there. AnonymousApr 21, 2019 at 7:38pmTime wounds all heels. He'll get the life he deserves. Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?