Tired of It

I am just so tired of dating. You get 3 or 4 dates a week and then in a month 1 might be good but he of course has 50 other options so then you're back to square one and you don't feel like you're getting anywhere. I am not trying to hate on a lot of guys but please let us speak during a date. Nothing infuriates us more than a guy who keeps cutting us off again and again. I don't really care how much money you have or what you do for a living as long as you work hard and have a mission statement with solid milestones. There are some quality guys in Vancouver but there just aren't enough to go around.


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Male Human Ltd.

Apr 21, 2019 at 11:42am

Oh, look, MBA-themed dating is a thing!...
A mission statement and milestones, indeed. Someone has Project Management on the brain.
Working hard is for machines - they do it much better and harder for longer. Just like power toys...er, tools. Working smart (or maybe, clever) is still human, for now.
Even commercial pilots are more like technicians and troubleshooters now. The planes just about fly themselves. Sometimes into the ground, just the way humans do... Sorry, too soon?
And company management "teams" have long since figured out how to screw the hardest workers, for less. Thus why the sudden debate about socialism.
But hey, whatever your c. 1950 factory assembly line work ethic is, more power to you. Hope you find your Prince Charming, Inc.

Congratulations OP/Troll

Apr 21, 2019 at 12:20pm

You made it 4 days without posting the same tired thing.
Though it was kind of nice of you to substitute 'guys interrupting' with the usual rant that we're all drug addicts/drunks and unemployed.

I am curious though how you manage to get 3 or 4 dates a week,when 99% of the incels complain that there's no men in Vancouver and they haven't been on a date in years.

Also curious as to when you plan to post a mild variation of this...shall we aim for Friday?


Apr 21, 2019 at 12:21pm

You gotta get off the sites and go back to Church. Get set up with a honourable man with actual values that are aligned with what you wish. Those sites you look on are full of men with no values and zero class. At the same you are choosing to go on these sites and whoring yourself out so you're conveying the same values these men are so expect the same. Get out of that wheel and reclaim your values if that's what you wish. Good luck

The issue is...

Apr 21, 2019 at 1:53pm

... what you want a man for. Men are required for making babies, and even that, thanks to the miracles of Industrial Family Law, you don't even need to keep the male around, in the worst case Government bails you out or the father is on the hook.

So, the real issue is what you want a man for. If the issue is that you want someone who will help contribute to financial expenses to have a child, part of what reasonable women do is go "OK, well, he does go on, and he is boring, but he will pay his share of the mortgage!" So, you smile and nod. You don't hold out for a guy who is 3/3 or 5/5 or whatever. Pays the mortgage, doesn't go out and get drunk, is boring. Pick two. Now, in this case you also want your children, especially male children, to not end up with shit-tier DNA. Nothing is worse for a male than being shit-tier (under 6'). Thankfully, on that front, you can fairly easily secure a male to provide and then acquire whatever semen you want and have your male raise that semen, provided, you know, you don't go for a Jamaican when your provider is from Denmark.

Meanwhile, all the man cares about is continuing to have sex---if he could have sex with lots of different women, or settle on one who is always thinking "NOW HE NEEDS TO LET ME TALK," which do you think he will pick?

Asian AFC

Apr 21, 2019 at 3:24pm

I wish I was the guy with 50 options for women to date. But I’ve never connected with anybody on Tinder or Bumble... except for that creepy guy (no, I'm not gay so I'm not interested) or that cougar. I have a good, well-paying job, own my own place, have a car and have my finances and other sh*t together. Trying to find a woman in real life is fruitless as well. I know that being Asian is a rejection criteria right there, and I'm very aware that it's not a very desirable ethnicity, even among Asian women, many of whom seem to prefer white men. I hate myself, and I wish I wasn't such a failure. Sigh.

If you dont mind

Apr 21, 2019 at 4:02pm

Can I ask where you meet guys to go on 3 to 4 dates a week. Most guys I know get 2-3 a month. If that.

19 6Rating: +13


Apr 21, 2019 at 7:45pm

What the fuck guys are you talking to that have 50 more options lined up? Texting and not even dating 2 girls is a huge benchmark for me.

20 4Rating: +16

@If you dont mind

Apr 21, 2019 at 8:32pm

80% of the women chase and date 10-20% of the men, so very few men even get a date a month.

21 7Rating: +14


Apr 22, 2019 at 7:29pm

You keep cutting us off?
How many of 'us' is he taking on this date?
If you insist on bringing a chaperone then small wonder its one date the crickets!

8 11Rating: -3


Apr 22, 2019 at 10:31pm

Oh, so we should all go to church where people believe there’s some imaginary, judgmental asswipe in the sky looking down on us and scorning our every thought? Thanks but there’s enough of those walking among us. I’d rather talk to people with original thoughts in their heads who aren’t desperately trying to find an answer to human existence. We’re here for a good time, not a long time, so have a good time, the sun can’t shine everyday. Ps, if there is a heaven and a hell then I’m stoked for hell because that’s where all the cool people are. Plus it’s nice and warm there.

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