What they don’t tell you

I may have had a chance with a man who, to me, is perfect in his flaws. Dark, intelligent and corresponding complex. But he’s figuring himself out, having a rough time, and needs a few real and selfless friends to support him. The fact that repressing my desire for more than friendship is “the right thing to do” doesn’t make it hurt any less.

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Something I found out the hard way.

Apr 22, 2019 at 12:46pm

Unfortunately more often than not "the right thing to do" is usually " the dumb thing to do".

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You're not his mama

Apr 22, 2019 at 2:27pm

Unless you gave birth to him then you shouldn't be building no grown man! Once you finish building him up, he will leave you for the type of person that he always wanted, which is not you!

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@You'renothismama and op

Apr 22, 2019 at 5:01pm

First @you're not his mama, simple GFYS and op Imu more than words can say, my love has never broken it's been bent but not broken You're my default I know I can not live as I should without you but finding my way back to you is proving to be very difficult Ilu.

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James

Apr 22, 2019 at 7:54pm

But can the man dance?

9 2Rating: +7

We Have One Life to Live

Apr 22, 2019 at 9:15pm

Don't make him wait

9 5Rating: +4

I’ve been with that guy for years

Apr 22, 2019 at 10:21pm

He won’t find himself. He’ll rely on others for support. Some will grow tired but if you love him you’ll stick it out to the detriment of your own self growth.

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If he can not

Apr 23, 2019 at 1:00am

Get his shit together then stear clear.

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What is real? when all

Apr 23, 2019 at 1:03pm

you've heard from one is endless lies, so much so it started bending reality. Another that thinks if you love it will kill you. Well shit it might, but if it doesn't you'll learn more in that break than anything to date. She can only scream in opposition of her actual feelings, this also creates a bend in the real. So it's so surreal at times, I wonder if I'm dreaming.

3 11Rating: -8

Too many nay sayers

Apr 23, 2019 at 7:02pm

If that's who you love, don't let anyone or the world itself stop you from being with them. Life is too short not to enjoy it. These naysayers all had their chance to enjoy life, and they failed. They just want you to join them in their misery, and eternal torment.

4 10Rating: -6

Yes

Apr 23, 2019 at 8:34pm

I am perfect.
No flaws except those your psyche projects.
I am perfect.

4 8Rating: -4

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