What they don’t tell you
posted April 22nd, 2019 at 10:21 AM
I may have had a chance with a man who, to me, is perfect in his flaws. Dark, intelligent and corresponding complex. But he’s figuring himself out, having a rough time, and needs a few real and selfless friends to support him. The fact that repressing my desire for more than friendship is “the right thing to do” doesn’t make it hurt any less.
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Post a CommentSomething I found out the hard way.
Apr 22, 2019 at 12:46pm
Unfortunately more often than not "the right thing to do" is usually " the dumb thing to do".
You're not his mama
Apr 22, 2019 at 2:27pm
Unless you gave birth to him then you shouldn't be building no grown man! Once you finish building him up, he will leave you for the type of person that he always wanted, which is not you!
@You'renothismama and op
Apr 22, 2019 at 5:01pm
First @you're not his mama, simple GFYS and op Imu more than words can say, my love has never broken it's been bent but not broken You're my default I know I can not live as I should without you but finding my way back to you is proving to be very difficult Ilu.
James
Apr 22, 2019 at 7:54pm
But can the man dance?
We Have One Life to Live
Apr 22, 2019 at 9:15pm
Don't make him wait
I’ve been with that guy for years
Apr 22, 2019 at 10:21pm
He won’t find himself. He’ll rely on others for support. Some will grow tired but if you love him you’ll stick it out to the detriment of your own self growth.
If he can not
Apr 23, 2019 at 1:00am
Get his shit together then stear clear.
What is real? when all
Apr 23, 2019 at 1:03pm
you've heard from one is endless lies, so much so it started bending reality. Another that thinks if you love it will kill you. Well shit it might, but if it doesn't you'll learn more in that break than anything to date. She can only scream in opposition of her actual feelings, this also creates a bend in the real. So it's so surreal at times, I wonder if I'm dreaming.
Too many nay sayers
Apr 23, 2019 at 7:02pm
If that's who you love, don't let anyone or the world itself stop you from being with them. Life is too short not to enjoy it. These naysayers all had their chance to enjoy life, and they failed. They just want you to join them in their misery, and eternal torment.
Yes
Apr 23, 2019 at 8:34pm
I am perfect.
No flaws except those your psyche projects.
I am perfect.
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