As a Dude

As a dude with girlfriends, I'm getting tired of hanging out with them only to hear constant complaining. Job, boyfriend, friends, money etc. It's just this high pitched loud complaining. I try to say nothing and just nod my head and be an understanding ear to hear what they have to say. But it's getting old, really old. One day I will snap, or I'll just stop seeing them. I can't remember the last time they even asked about me. Guess that's why I'm the nice guy, for now.

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Do you...

May 21, 2019 at 9:46am

have their permission to form your own thoughts ?

Go find other friends

May 21, 2019 at 9:59am

I wouldn't want someone in the group who thought those things about myself and friends. Exit, and they can complain all they want, in whatever voice they feel like using.

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Van Man

May 21, 2019 at 11:39am

You're too nice.

hmmm

May 21, 2019 at 12:07pm

use your words. you are a grown ass man.

Nah

May 21, 2019 at 12:07pm

I had more male friends in the past, it was exactly the same thing only the Y chromosome version. I heard a lot of complaining about relationships and jobs too, they never seemed too interested in what I had to say about myself. Occasionally they would pretend to listen to me, then go back to complaining about their hard life. I got tired of being the sympathetic ear; now I have better friends. I don't think this is a gender specific trait.

You've trained them

May 21, 2019 at 12:40pm

It doesn't matter who they are. You have trained them to complain to you. You can turn the conversation in other directions but you have not done so.

Hugh mungus

May 21, 2019 at 2:37pm

Haven't you learned that man and woman can never be just "friends"?? Honestly I can't remember a time I met with a girl my age alone and didn't think about sex.

Anonymous

May 21, 2019 at 3:01pm

Don't be that guy. You get nothing from the friendship. Drop them.

I'm not that nice

May 21, 2019 at 3:38pm

I don't listen for free. I charge all my women friends sex, for listening to them complain about their ungrateful, useless, and cheating boyfriends.

High pitched

May 21, 2019 at 4:04pm

Lady Voices huh ..Bahaha
You need a fun Tom boy type of girlfriend to hang with.. Way more fun
They sound like Valley Girl types..
Into themselves..

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