Somewhere it's out there waiting

I just want unconditional love. I want to be with someone who will stick it out even if we can't fulfill what each other fully needs when we need it. I want the kind of love where our trust in each other is continuous and certain, where loyalty and kindness reign. I want to have the kind of love where neither of us would ever feel the desire to cheat, because we are enough for each other. So, God (or who/whatever is out there), please stop sending me narcissists. I'm ready for real love.

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Get a...

May 25, 2019 at 1:39pm

... dog. Feed it and it will love you.

How about

May 25, 2019 at 2:09pm

Neither of us would feel the desire to cheat... because we're not shitty people?

Good luck

May 25, 2019 at 2:37pm

This city is the Mecca for narcissists. It rewards and encourages their bullshit.

How about..

May 25, 2019 at 3:59pm

Stop chasing narcissists? You're the one using underhanded tactics to pursue "narcissists"? And also, maybe don't chase people already in relationships? That should do the trick.

Sorry, babe

May 25, 2019 at 4:20pm

You already received unconditional love. You just refused to accept it without putting on your own conditions.

God

May 25, 2019 at 5:45pm

stop dating Chads.

heh

May 26, 2019 at 5:12am

and if unconditional love approaches will you first label it a narcissist?

This isn’t who you think it is

May 26, 2019 at 7:47am

I feel like at least one of the comments above may be from someone with whom I’m presently having a frustrating time with, in regards to a possible rekindling of our relationship. So just in case, I want to say that it’s not me who wrote this post. Although, I can certainly empathize with the Op.

@How about

May 26, 2019 at 5:43pm

Narcissits are never in relationships. They are in carefully engineered situations of self satisfaction geared to their needs and their needs alone through sheer usery. They always have a second something on the side to maintain a steady supply. Knowing this, I definitely don't want to pursue anyone like that but they sure find me.

@@How about

May 27, 2019 at 12:51am

So does this mean you're in a relationship, and you're chasing after someone outside of your relationship who isn't in a relationship for their unconditional love, while at the same time calling them a narcissist for not giving it to you?

If so, you're not loving the person you're with who seems to be loving you unconditionally with that type of behavior of yours, and you're not loving the person you want the unconditional love from when you're giving your ass to someone else who's love you don't reciprocate. You expect everyone to love you unconditionally when you have no love yourself to give, and you call them the narcissist?

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