I don’t know why I’m even surprised. I completely expected him to behave exactly as he always had. Call me an eternal optimist, or perhaps an eternal fool, for thinking that just possibly he had finally recognized what he needed to change in order to have a successful relationship with me (or with any other woman for that matter). Of course he hadn’t! His hypocrisy is legendary. He really believes that it’s me who “doesn’t get it”, even though he dictated the parameters of the relationship up front, and when I behaved exactly as one should under those parameters, he lost it. Apparently the rules only apply to me, but he can do and say whatever he likes. I was supposed to fall into line like a good little sycophant. Well, I didn’t, and now he says he’s disappointed and hurt. He said it was so sad that I just didn’t get it. I’m not sad though. I’m just relieved that the past year of pain and suffering is now in my past, and I’ve obviously learned enough to not ever have to go through it again.


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Jun 12, 2019 at 2:09pm

Are you talking about. This has to be another fish bowl bungle because I...wtf !!!

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Did we date the same person?

Jun 12, 2019 at 2:36pm

I think we dated the same person.

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air head

Jun 13, 2019 at 11:27am

You and I never even dated and her and I nope I dodged a bullet big time.

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More like your hypocrisy

Jun 13, 2019 at 10:12pm

It's sad that I had to forgive myself for loving someone much like yourself. I know you don't get it, but don't worry about it. It's probably much too late anyway.

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Jun 14, 2019 at 1:37pm

The person I’m talking about has no idea what real love looks like, or he’d never have done the things he’s done. If that’s his idea of love, then I’m obviously better on my own. I respect myself, but since he can’t handle the fact that I have boundaries, he clearly doesn’t respect me at all. Definitely better on my own.

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Jun 14, 2019 at 4:34pm

It’s always funny to me how people react to posts like this. Unless you’ve been through this then you don’t know what you’re talking about. I find that the comments are generally made by people just like the guy who fucks with your head. Been there, done that. Never again!

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Jun 14, 2019 at 6:23pm

Your boundaries? What about their boundaries, or that of your current partner? When you're in a relationship, and you go jumping fences looking for greener grass, you're not giving a shit about anyone's boundaries. Your boundaries don't have any relevance in another's yard. Be respectful if you wish to be respected.

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Jun 14, 2019 at 8:45pm

This post doesn’t involve you. It involves only two people. Me and the ex. I wasn’t with anyone else. Not sure about him, but knowing what I do about him, I assume that he’s always got at least one other ex on the back burner.

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Jun 15, 2019 at 5:14am

This post doesn’t apply to you. I’ve done no jumping of fences and I’m not in any other relationship. Can’t speak for him though, as I suspect that he’s always got someone else lined up.

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The ex

Jun 20, 2019 at 5:20pm

The ex actually is not holding in a holding type pattern anyone else. Why it's is very simple he fell in love not long after she and him were destroyed by pathological lying, cheating and betrayals. He leaves town, running really tail between his meek legs scared of the new world ahead without her. Then the new she comes out of left field an angel of the utmost beauty, grace and style. She is hot headed and a real firecracker, to trifle is to put one's self in front of the rifle. Every since he has not had sex or kissed, has been not interested in any offers of kissing or sex, because since the evening he saw she he wanted no other and this is as it's been that way every loving day since. This I swear as a truth on my eternal soul and on I hold dear, I also weigh it against the love I have for her. It will be safe as a June bug, because lying I am not.

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