I'll confess I can not give her what she needs.

I've spent far too much time trying to figure out how to convince her I love her so much. Well yes I do, but that is not enough. I know this now and it sucks really bad. I do not see myself possibly loving like that again, I mean I hope I'm wrong but doubt it. I wish her all the best in this world and I have to try and find strength to be better than just loving someone, I believed that song "Love is all you need"

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Jun 24, 2019 at 1:22pm

Love is all you need, but if they don't have it, you're not going to get it.

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Love note

Jun 24, 2019 at 4:53pm

The thing is, you never had to convince her.

You just had to show her.

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@Love note

Jun 24, 2019 at 6:08pm

I thought I had, but even when I was sure I could show her so much more. I could not seem to find an open space, that is to say as soon as I arrive to visit her and it's just her and I. Well that is very quickly put to the test, repeated and almost unstopping knocking her door. "It's so and so It's super important, well super important usually turns out to be directions to their favorite color. Even worst and she says I'm wrong but it sure feels like the butt of all the snarky and snide comments are directed my way. Or they'll bring up shit they know she has had an issue with me already for, in hopes I guess of being Super Shallow Man and restarting that now dead quarrel. So showing her has sadly been a difficult challenge and in all fairness when we have the moments be it only a few they fell flat but charged with a sexual tension. Fear and common/non-common sense and all.

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@love note- OP here, Forget that last long stupid

Jun 24, 2019 at 6:25pm

Comment with all the blah blah blah interference B.S I posted before this, this is the truthful fact of this sad tale. I was my own worst cock block. Your right I did fail to show her and that's my fault no one else's. I'm the super shallow asshole and that right there is a fucking fact! God I did fail her just not as I thought. I tend to go way in to far and get lost when seeking answers.

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Again....

Jun 24, 2019 at 6:27pm

....saying you love someone is fine, but showing them is the only thing that matters. Were you there for her when she needed you? Did you listen to her and take her needs and concerns seriously? Did you actually tell her that you loved her to her face when you weren’t drunk or fooling around? Did you make it clear to her that you genuinely wanted a commitment of some kind? My ex did none of those things but for some bizarre reason he still said that it was me who “didn’t get it”. So unless you’ve truly been brave enough to leave your ego at the door and put all your cards on the table, then you haven’t done enough.

@ Love note

Jun 24, 2019 at 6:28pm

Show her how? By writing a love note? lol

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Material Girls

Jun 24, 2019 at 6:43pm

Never trust someone that is in love with money, more than they are with you. They'll always sell you out, and betray you in the end.

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Anonymous

Jun 24, 2019 at 6:53pm

u did say hi rt?

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Love note @OP

Jun 24, 2019 at 7:34pm

Thank you for sharing that. It takes guts to own the self cock blockage :)

The face to face can be so hard. I feel you. I’ve struggled with finding the right words to share with my person too. I love him so much. Why can’t I just spit it out?

And i understand that different people have different communication styles which can sometimes lead to friction between the peeps as well as in the sheets.

I’m sure this girl doesn’t think you’re a demon. She might not be making snarky comments behind your back like you think. Even the mouthy and sassy types sometimes like to sit back and stay quiet.

Who knows? Maybe love IS all you need.

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It Never Ends

Jun 24, 2019 at 9:45pm

There's always someone else from the past,and she'll despise you because she "settled" for you.
So you try to make and keep her happy by other means,and most of the time it will end. Then she will be off,and will always be the man's fault,as he supposedly didn't do enough.

If you want a stress free life,don't try to make nor keep women happy. Rather, keep and make yourself happy.

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