... my erotic response to women is intact after decades of using pornography to cope with being an ugly male. But, then, I never went down the "kinky porn" rabbit hole, even anal I get grossed out by, I mean, feces, right?

Plus, guys who are all about their porn absolutely SUCK in bed. When you deaden your natural arousal and sexual response and only get off to images of pornified women, good LUCK creating an actual sexual connection with another human and being a good lover.

Find some else into anything interesting. Just putting it out there.

I have no interest in having kids, and I have better sex on my own than I do with an actual woman that doesn't pay her fair share, but rather just mooches off me, and expects me to pay for everything. Unless a woman knows how to please me, I have no use for her. Unless you plan never to have a man pay your way in a relationship again, you may want to brush up on your porn techniques, and learn how to please a man.

makes sense.

Is that once you've seen how it could be done, you'll always be disappointed in how your partner is satisfied with how they'll get it done.

What Mr. Stud gets off on is none of my business, nor do I see any reason to be concerned about people having less sex.

Few guys are in the position to have or want a GF or wife,so mind your own business.
Nice try at the shaming though,and also noticed you didn't mention the effects on women.

I'm going to be single for the rest of my life, for many reasons (no friends, unloving family, being in an ethnic group that is sexually undesirable, not attractive or exciting enough, considered too "nice"), and all attempts at bettering myself have failed miserably (saving my money, moving into my own place, career progression, exercising and eating better, travelling the world). So the issue of not being able to perform in bed with a woman is irrelevant, because it will never happen.

While I've accepted that I'm going to be single and lonely for the rest of my life, I still have my needs -- and masturbating over porn fills that need. I don't have to waste my time trying in vain to impress an uninterested girl. I don't have to put up with constant rejections from women. And there's no pressure from a woman to "perform" in bed. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want to. The same applies to everything else in my life. It's what I have to do to survive and cope with the stigma of being a single, lonely male.

Thanks for the PSA, mom.