I’m gay in my mid sixties and have had any sex in the last few years.I am sick of porn and need the real deal.I see lots of attractive men but Can’t seem to connect because of anxiety and shyness..


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Mid sixties???

Jun 22, 2019 at 11:02am

My God dude, how have you met people in the past?
You know, like the past 4 decades??

Shyness is arrogance

Jun 22, 2019 at 1:44pm

Approaching people means having to test out whether this opinion you have of yourself is shared and, if you were really secure and confident in your self-assessment, you'd have no trouble approaching people because you'd get that any rejection may not necessarily be about you, but about your not being someone's type and if not, you'd be okay because there's always fish in the sea and you'll just have to aim for different fish. But sine this high opinion of yourself is so important, you refuse to risk it in any way, and that, buddy, is arrogance.
If you want to connect, you gotta say "fuck it" and go out there. Maybe not expect so much when you do. Nobody likes desperation.


Jun 23, 2019 at 5:56am

it's not always about sex. perhaps that's the problem.

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Shyness is NOT arrogance

Jun 23, 2019 at 6:05am

Lonliness and anxiety are real challenges. Perhaps if you focused on overcoming the anxiety first you might have more confidence to date. Best of luck to you- hugs!

I use to think that way

Jun 23, 2019 at 8:45am

Then I discovered pussy, changed my life & sex life for the better, you'd like it too, just don't be afraid to try it & taste it, you won't regret it


Oct 4, 2019 at 6:18am

I had dozens of encounters when I was from 20 to 50 but I was always drunk.Now that I am over the hump and past 60 it’s a whole different ball game and I don’t get drunk anymore just light drinking

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