Best before date

I've lost the weight, but I gained scars and wrinkles. I sag where I had the extra flesh. I'm working on my mental health but I'm never going to be normal. It's a slow process. Maybe one day I'll be well enough to date, but the expiration date on my looks will be before then

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Anonymous

Jul 10, 2019 at 12:26pm

I was rejected by a woman once. For years I was really bitter. I hoped she'd get fat and gross, and in fact after some time she did look a little out of shape, tired, bloated. But unfortunately it made me realize I still cared for her no matter what she looked like. Maybe there is someone out there that can/does love you no matter how you see yourself.

What a shitty thing to say

Jul 10, 2019 at 3:21pm

There is no "expiration date" because of looks when it comes to dating.
People meet & fall in-love in every decade of life.
Trying to suggest that love is only for young people is ignorant and perpetuates the idea of men (or women) being superficial .

Hey!

Jul 10, 2019 at 4:02pm

Whats normal Girl?
Everyone seem to wear a mask.
Be your Beautiful Self.
No one is perfect.
You worked hard on feeling healthy. Striving for something you wanted.
Let your heart shine outward.
Thats the true you.
That always catches someone's eyes.
When you least expect it.
Love doesn't judge!

You have value as a human

Jul 10, 2019 at 5:09pm

beyond your weight and looks

I've dated 2 women with this

Jul 10, 2019 at 8:18pm

And it was not an issue for me. They are very sexy and beautiful, so much so, I married one of them!

Dr. Doolittle

Jul 11, 2019 at 4:05pm

This was written by a plastic surgeon no doubt. Lol business must be slowing down?

Because only thin young people deserve love?

Jul 11, 2019 at 7:11pm

That is a lie. People are falling in love all over the place, at all weights and ages. It's true! Don't believe the lie.

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@What a shitty thing to say

Jul 11, 2019 at 9:05pm

Maybe not for women. I am an ugly, disabled male. I'll never have kids or family. In the tree of life, some of us are just leaves that blow away.

Everyone has them

Jul 12, 2019 at 7:54pm

Feel comfort knowing that we all have wrinkles, scars. I have wrinkles, scars, age spots. Ever see all those celebrities without makeup? If not, Google the most good looking celebrities without makeup. You’ll realize that every one looks the same.

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