OK I'll Be Honest

I didn't have kids because I'm selfish.


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Jul 16, 2019 at 4:08pm

Its probably better you didn't..lol
Cause it the most unselfish job in the world... If your doing it right.
Your world changes when you have children.
You have to think about someone else besides yourself.
Before yourself.
Keep them happy and safe and show them lots of love..
How to be a good person.
You try!!!!

Same Boat

Jul 16, 2019 at 4:41pm

In my eyes, I think you're responsible for choosing not to have children. Sure, selfishness plays a part but I have a lot of friends who have children who I think were selfish for having them in the first place. Some of them couldn't afford it. Others did it to "save their marriage". Still others did it so a piece of them would live on when they died. There are lots of reasons for having or not having children. But not having them by choice doesn't automatically make you selfish - it makes you honest.

Thank You.

Jul 16, 2019 at 4:55pm

This is not a bad thing. It's ultimately better for the planet. The only people that don't override their contribution to the economy with their carbon footprint are those that can afford to offset their carbon footprint or the homeless. Do you know anyone willing to offset their carbon foot print with hard cash? I don't.


Jul 16, 2019 at 5:10pm

Now, wanting to have kids is considered selfish.

@ Yes &

Jul 16, 2019 at 5:25pm

you are so right

Nothing wrong

Jul 16, 2019 at 6:11pm

with being a little selfish. We all are. At least, you're honest about it, which most people aren't. As someone who wants children, I respect your choice. We're all different, and want different things in life. You should do what's good for you. Nobody else should judge our decision to have children or not. Live and let live.


Jul 16, 2019 at 6:51pm

I hate kids but if a Particular Person wanted kids with me, I'd totally make 'em no matter how many times it took because I'm selfish.

Of course

Jul 16, 2019 at 7:05pm

You dont have to have childen or get married or anything else old time standards told people they must do.
Maybe we would not be in this mess of over population if it had not been inbeded in our minds for so long.. You have to get a degree , certain job, get married, buy a house, have a few kids, go into major debt ,get a fancy car or two, Yearly vacations , buy stocks and bonds for retirement, set up your expensive burial plot for when you die.
We as people have the right to be or do anything we want with our lives.
Build your own happiness.
Make your dreams come true.
No one should dictate or judge you ever..
Tell them to go look in their own dam mirror, if they try too.


Jul 16, 2019 at 7:11pm

Hate is such a strong word..
Dont you mean dislike..lol
So who's the person, you are hot for?
Selfish baby maker. bahaha
Come on share!!
I wont tell.

Why am I hear

Jul 16, 2019 at 7:11pm

To find you of course...

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