Creation that went wrong with the one she loved

I have been with this young lady for 7 months , at the time to help her cause she had no other place to stay. Have meet her through a mutual friend. So I brought her home told her to relax for a while cause she had bad anxiety and stress so didn’t want her to feel any pressure from me . All though I did mention that she will have to find a job and find her own place to live and for her just to do dishes and laundry, cause I work full time my self . She’s a artist she says and loves to create. I told her to make more art work and try and sell some . She’s a good artist: she said it’s not for sale it’s meant for people to enjoy. Don’t understand at that time why . Then she said she needs her own room for her to create and have her own space and privacy. I asked why she will be doing in there again it was private. She wanted a relationship with me but I was not wanting that cause I wanted her to focus on her self and not feel that she owed me anything. Cause that was happening prior where she has stayed . 4 months later we started to date but she was still closed of on what she was creating. She got a job loved it there but wold not introduce me to anyone and said she’s creating I said can I be involved she said no . It’s been like that ever since I’m not involved , she said she loves me so much that I can’t be apart of that . Was I ever confused and hurt . Now she moved out creating and I’m nothing . Just feel used helped her for 7 months and left blocked me from everything and the people who really did her wrong she still in contact with . Yes I still lover her . Just venting thanks ....

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TL;DR

Aug 22, 2019 at 4:47pm

Sounds like my cat

Simple

Aug 22, 2019 at 6:17pm

Dont date artists in Vancouver. Mostly a bunch of self important narcissists.

John titor

Aug 23, 2019 at 10:46am

Sounds like you got used... join the club brother

My friend

Aug 23, 2019 at 2:35pm

Although you said you expected nothing,
I think you did.
And as for her, she did not include in her new life of art work and her new job, because she was using you.
That relationship she started with you 4 months later, I think was her trying to pay you.
You did say
it happened before where she previously lived (sex for free rent).
"Im pretty sure thats what you were saying."
Are you sure you really loved her or just miss the odd company.
You tried to do a nice thing by helping someone.
Remember that part!

Disappointed

Aug 24, 2019 at 4:24am

Yes i do love her I enjoyed her company her presence we had fun together when she involved me well that was just us together having fun reading crosswords walks the river even tennis. Unfortunately she always found away to get mad and leave to create with other people that’s what bothered me . To top it of she did take more than my soul!

15 9Rating: +6

Bill W.

Aug 30, 2019 at 1:25am

she played you like a fiddle. You should have gotten all the triple xxx sex you really wanted. Quit the beta male bullshit.

13 9Rating: +4

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