I have never had any trouble meeting men in the City. I mean they make up 50% of the population. Of course I put in some effort. I go to the gym 5 days a week and dress professionally. I get asked out at least twice a day. If I find a man attractive I will flirt with them. I have standards just like everyone else. I am from Poland so I don't play games. I only date one person and I am very upfront of what my expectations are. If you aren't looking to get married in the future or have children I won't waste my time on you. I just don't see any problems with the dating culture here and I think maybe some people are just anti-social or don't put in proper effort to attract anyone.