Fun wanted

I'm not having any fun. I want to let loose somehow, to do something different. I am so inhibited, I don't do half the things I want to because I worry what others think. I've lived my whole life just trying not to bother people, trying to stay out of the way, to not be seen. Which might not be a bad thing in ways but I think I do it to a fault, where I don't really go for what I want or assert myself. I want to do something different, to live a little, to sin, but I don't know where to start.

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Just dance!

Aug 21, 2019 at 8:52am

Go to a rave or an electronic music festival.....

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You can do eeettt

Aug 21, 2019 at 9:30am

Start with something simple so as not to overwhelm or discourage yourself :) Make a couple lists of your interests and what events/activities fall under each interests own umbrella, and then start with the least intimidating. It's like snowballing your debt but for introverts and instead of debt you have activities to try! :) You got this bby!

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Me,

Aug 21, 2019 at 9:50am

I just play at lot of electric guitar with my friends.

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You've already started

Aug 21, 2019 at 10:22am

You realize you want/need change. Take the next little step. Strike up a conversation with a stranger. Go see some live music; have a drink or two and just relax & enjoy the experience. Do some travelling - first shorter, then a longer trip. You're anonymous, and people are friendly. Listen to Queen's "I Want to Break Free", then do it! Best of luck.

Well hell

Aug 21, 2019 at 12:33pm

Your starting off with a hell of a bang.
Oooooh posting in the Georgia Straight.
So Risky and out there..
Try Hang Gliding..
Sky Diving
Thats sounds exciting!!!

leah stoltz

Aug 21, 2019 at 4:36pm

I have had similar feelings recently. I felt if i could do one thing to break me free to do new things it would help me be more brave. I decided to do a drastic hair cut. Shaved most of my hair off,now just a funky side bang. I've now felt more free to do other things when the opportunity is in front of me to be brave and do stuff!

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Lost an eye

Aug 21, 2019 at 11:53pm

Fun is overrated.

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That's what ...

Aug 22, 2019 at 1:42pm

all-inclusive resorts in third world countries are for.

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Average rape ape

Aug 22, 2019 at 3:48pm

Go hangout with no-more-beer person. Heeps of peeps / S~

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Life's too short

Aug 26, 2019 at 10:08am

There are such great communities to be found once you stop caring about other people's judgement. Life's way too short to worry about what others think, it's your only chance to be you!
Based on your posting, I'm tempted to tell you to google the lifestyle. One of many alternative communities out there where certain social "rules" are thrown out the window.

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