Real Advice

My advice to any attractive woman who is perpetually single is to look inwards rather than outwards with regards to blame for why you are single. You have to lower your expectations and accept what life gives you. Your future may not have a Prince Charming but may have someone who works in construction or a bakery. Life is what you make of it and if you are to be single or married the onus is on you and you alone to make it happen.

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Not actually a thing

Aug 20, 2019 at 9:57pm

Here’s my advice to a man giving single women advice. Dude men are dangerous, and they’re really controlling, and super picky about weight issues, when they’re not cheating or beating. Thanks think I’ll remain perpetually single and safe here’s my advice to a man giving single women advice. Dude men are dangerous, and they’re really controlling, and super picky about weight issues, when they’re not cheating or beating. Thanks think I’ll remain perpetually single, safe and happy I’m not settling for garbage. Women aren’t perfect and we don’t expect men to be perfect either, there just isn’t enough quality safe sane men out there. Perhaps before making commentary you should look inward, and outward and realize the patriarchy hasn’t been kind to women and most of us are just kind of done with it. If I could change my sexual orientation by choice I would in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, I’d rather be single than settle.

Anonymous

Aug 20, 2019 at 10:06pm

You sound like a bitter loser.

What an arrogant post

Aug 20, 2019 at 10:07pm

Who are you to dispense this so-called advice.
My your ow business.

What an arrogant post

Aug 20, 2019 at 10:07pm

Who are you to dispense this so-called advice.
My your own business.

@Real Advice

Aug 20, 2019 at 10:36pm

Read Advice: My advice to any judgemental little shits who thinks "Confessions" is for uninvited advice to look inwards rather than point outwards, in regards to your initial thoughts and assumptions about others from your pedestal up there.

Struggle love is not cute

Aug 20, 2019 at 11:21pm

There is a conspiracy from Bob the Builders, Dusty, and from any low value men for women to lower their standards. Ladies, please refrain from lowering your standards unless you enjoy being Struggle Queens. Men such as the OP want you to embrace their mediocre behaviours.

Being single is not a disease.

Aug 21, 2019 at 12:36am

And it's not the default to having a good life. There is more than one way to live and make a great life for yourself.

No one needs your advice that is based on your opinion that women only look for men who have money or a high status career. It's tough to find a partner who is respectful and decent - it has nothing to do with what he does for a living. Those construction workers and bakers that you reference? They can still be shitty and disrespectful partners.

And sometimes, despite our best efforts, we still end up "single". You're right about one thing - life is what you make of it. I'd rather be alone and building my own life full of great friends and healthy activities than be with someone who is a crappy partner.

So many people are in relationships that suck them dry and they end up husks of the people they once were. No thanks, I'd rather be alone than be part of that scenario.

*My* advice to you, OP, is to be a better person. Your career isn't the barrier to you not being paired up because clearly that's what you want.

Real Advice

Aug 21, 2019 at 12:37am

My advice to any attractive man who is perpetually single is to look inwards rather than outwards with regards to blame for why you are single.
You have to lower your expectations and accept what life gives you. Your future may not have a Homecoming Queen but may have someone who works in construction or a bakery.
Life is what you make of it and if you are to be single or married the onus is on you and you alone to make it happen.

Skewed

Aug 21, 2019 at 6:49am

A bit of a condescending and blameful post.

How about framing it not as “lowering your expectations” but “changing your perspective” to appreciate the joys of being single. And to be thankful you’re not stuck on autopilot in a dead-end or long-expired relationship.

Singledom is freedom.

Written like a true incel

Aug 21, 2019 at 8:09am

It’s hard to find dates when you’re hiding in your moms basement, yes?

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